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Hi there,
My husband and I have been married just over 2 years, passing our first interview no problem and he received his temporary conditional GC. That was last October, when things were still mostly good. Now however things are not so good and we have decided to call it quits.
Over the last several months our differences have been pulling us apart and the commonalities we once shared just aren't there anymore, or I am just growing out of them. Either way... it has become increasingly obvious to both of us, that even though we still care for one another, our lives just aren't moving in the same directions. I grew up on a rural island and I long for the simple country life, he is from London and wants the go go go of the city. We simply are not meant to be married and definately CANNOT live together any longer.
We married quickly and impetuously, not really knowing what we were getting ourselves into legally with all this immigration stuff, he even waited months after we were married before filing our initial paperwork. Like I said we aren't the couple of the year and his ability to procrastinate on important matters is only one of the reasons this just aint gonna work.
But still we are mostly ok with each other and simply want to get divorced, apperently you can do it online these days for $162. But now having done some research and reading many of the threads on this site, I feel like that isn't going to be possible.
I haven't read anything on here quite like my case. I read a lot about fraud and abuse. We married in good faith and now want to go our seperate ways. Of course he want to stay in the US. He has many friends and family where we live, in fact an American cousin of his is partially sponsoring him, along with myself. I didn't qualify to do it alone due to my income at that time.
Can anybody clue me in on what we're up against here?
My husband and I have been married just over 2 years, passing our first interview no problem and he received his temporary conditional GC. That was last October, when things were still mostly good. Now however things are not so good and we have decided to call it quits.
Over the last several months our differences have been pulling us apart and the commonalities we once shared just aren't there anymore, or I am just growing out of them. Either way... it has become increasingly obvious to both of us, that even though we still care for one another, our lives just aren't moving in the same directions. I grew up on a rural island and I long for the simple country life, he is from London and wants the go go go of the city. We simply are not meant to be married and definately CANNOT live together any longer.
We married quickly and impetuously, not really knowing what we were getting ourselves into legally with all this immigration stuff, he even waited months after we were married before filing our initial paperwork. Like I said we aren't the couple of the year and his ability to procrastinate on important matters is only one of the reasons this just aint gonna work.
But still we are mostly ok with each other and simply want to get divorced, apperently you can do it online these days for $162. But now having done some research and reading many of the threads on this site, I feel like that isn't going to be possible.
I haven't read anything on here quite like my case. I read a lot about fraud and abuse. We married in good faith and now want to go our seperate ways. Of course he want to stay in the US. He has many friends and family where we live, in fact an American cousin of his is partially sponsoring him, along with myself. I didn't qualify to do it alone due to my income at that time.
Can anybody clue me in on what we're up against here?
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