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    ILW Is a wonderful place to receive HELP! However anyone searching for answers Because They Married for Status? Family security? Any Agenda other Than Marrying Someone For Forever and Always Love! the Ending Wont Be Happy for either One Eventually!

    AMERICA! Those from other Places, If you Love Your Family "which I Know you do" Love your American Wife/Husband as #1! He/She Will Eventually love your Family as much as you do!!! And Will work Hard To HELP!!! DO NOT MARRY FOR STATUS, FOR FAMILY! Find an American You truly love. One that Makes You happy, feels good, Works Together For Common Lifelong Goals! The Good Times and Bad Times Each Always #1 To each Other No Matter What!!!

    This Is The Only Way For Everyone To Ultimately Reach Their Goals!

    Love Thy Wife/Husband #1 More Than Anything Else In This World!!! The Family Part Will Follow Automatically!

    In America, Don't Lie! Don't Cheat! Don't Steal!
    Make Your spouse #1 most Important In Your Life!
    All the Other dreams You Have will Follow! AUTOMATICALLY!

    Do Not Plan, Do Not Have Agenda! Love Your Spouse As Your Dream Love Before You Marry Them!
    AMERICA Is Different! Just Be HUMAN!!!

    Everything Else Will Fall Into Place!

    Temporarily Limit Yourself From The lifestyle You Are Escaping! Not That Its Wrong! Remember, You Are Coming To An Entirely New Place To Live! Different Thinking!

    My Advice: Temporarily Pretend You Have No History! Ethnic Background! Open Your Mind Completely, Experience a New Place Without History Of Your own. "Temporary" Watch, Listen, Learn, Mingle, Communicate, Just Born thinking!

    Listen To The People That have lived in USA Long Time! Feel free to share Your Home life, But Keep An open Mind To Those You experience In The New place! "USA"

    Do Not Limit Yourself To The people Here Of/From Your Own Culture!!!!! SEE EVERYONE AS JUST PEOPLE, HUMAN BEINGS, Make yourself Color Blind! Ethnic Background blind! USA Is A Huge Pot Of Everyone! Every Race, beliefs, Culture, lifestyle! Never Ever look At Anyone In USA and think She/He Is Muslim/Christian/Buddhist, Asian, British, ANYTHING!!!

    Appearances Mean Nothing!!! Most Of Those People You May Stereotype Here, where Actually Born Here! and Know nothing Of Their Initial Origin!!! Might Have Asian, Spanish, African, Etc. Physical appearance. But Are AMERICANS!!!!

    LOOKS MEAN NOTHING IN AMERICA AS FAR AS WHO THEY ARE AND WHAT THEIR BELIEFS, LIFESTYLE, ETC!

    Example: If You assume Someone is Asian, British, Spanish Etc. physical appearance, Here In Usa. They May Cuss You! and Say Who The F are You! I Am American! Born and Raised Here! I Don't speak Spanish, Japanese, Tagalog, Indian, Etc.

    Appearance Will deceive You!!! Don't Start Off On the Wrong Foot Here!

    JUST PEOPLE! ALL SAME NO MATTER THE CULTURAL APPEARANCE!

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    ILW Is a wonderful place to receive HELP! However anyone searching for answers Because They Married for Status? Family security? Any Agenda other Than Marrying Someone For Forever and Always Love! the Ending Wont Be Happy for either One Eventually!

    AMERICA! Those from other Places, If you Love Your Family "which I Know you do" Love your American Wife/Husband as #1! He/She Will Eventually love your Family as much as you do!!! And Will work Hard To HELP!!! DO NOT MARRY FOR STATUS, FOR FAMILY! Find an American You truly love. One that Makes You happy, feels good, Works Together For Common Lifelong Goals! The Good Times and Bad Times Each Always #1 To each Other No Matter What!!!

    This Is The Only Way For Everyone To Ultimately Reach Their Goals!

    Love Thy Wife/Husband #1 More Than Anything Else In This World!!! The Family Part Will Follow Automatically!

    In America, Don't Lie! Don't Cheat! Don't Steal!
    Make Your spouse #1 most Important In Your Life!
    All the Other dreams You Have will Follow! AUTOMATICALLY!

    Do Not Plan, Do Not Have Agenda! Love Your Spouse As Your Dream Love Before You Marry Them!
    AMERICA Is Different! Just Be HUMAN!!!

    Everything Else Will Fall Into Place!

    Temporarily Limit Yourself From The lifestyle You Are Escaping! Not That Its Wrong! Remember, You Are Coming To An Entirely New Place To Live! Different Thinking!

    My Advice: Temporarily Pretend You Have No History! Ethnic Background! Open Your Mind Completely, Experience a New Place Without History Of Your own. "Temporary" Watch, Listen, Learn, Mingle, Communicate, Just Born thinking!

    Listen To The People That have lived in USA Long Time! Feel free to share Your Home life, But Keep An open Mind To Those You experience In The New place! "USA"

    Do Not Limit Yourself To The people Here Of/From Your Own Culture!!!!! SEE EVERYONE AS JUST PEOPLE, HUMAN BEINGS, Make yourself Color Blind! Ethnic Background blind! USA Is A Huge Pot Of Everyone! Every Race, beliefs, Culture, lifestyle! Never Ever look At Anyone In USA and think She/He Is Muslim/Christian/Buddhist, Asian, British, ANYTHING!!!

    Appearances Mean Nothing!!! Most Of Those People You May Stereotype Here, where Actually Born Here! and Know nothing Of Their Initial Origin!!! Might Have Asian, Spanish, African, Etc. Physical appearance. But Are AMERICANS!!!!

    LOOKS MEAN NOTHING IN AMERICA AS FAR AS WHO THEY ARE AND WHAT THEIR BELIEFS, LIFESTYLE, ETC!

    Example: If You assume Someone is Asian, British, Spanish Etc. physical appearance, Here In Usa. They May Cuss You! and Say Who The F are You! I Am American! Born and Raised Here! I Don't speak Spanish, Japanese, Tagalog, Indian, Etc.

    Appearance Will deceive You!!! Don't Start Off On the Wrong Foot Here!

    JUST PEOPLE! ALL SAME NO MATTER THE CULTURAL APPEARANCE!

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    • #3
      <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dcwtech:
      ...

      Find an American You truly love.

      ... </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

      By birth or naturalization?

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      • #4
        <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dcwtech:
        ILW Is a wonderful place to receive HELP! However anyone searching for answers Because They Married for Status? Family security? Any Agenda other Than Marrying Someone For Forever and Always Love! the Ending Wont Be Happy for either One Eventually!

        AMERICA! Those from other Places, If you Love Your Family "which I Know you do" Love your American Wife/Husband as #1! He/She Will Eventually love your Family as much as you do!!! And Will work Hard To HELP!!! DO NOT MARRY FOR STATUS, FOR FAMILY! Find an American You truly love. One that Makes You happy, feels good, Works Together For Common Lifelong Goals! The Good Times and Bad Times Each Always #1 To each Other No Matter What!!!

        This Is The Only Way For Everyone To Ultimately Reach Their Goals!

        Love Thy Wife/Husband #1 More Than Anything Else In This World!!! The Family Part Will Follow Automatically!

        In America, Don't Lie! Don't Cheat! Don't Steal!
        Make Your spouse #1 most Important In Your Life!
        All the Other dreams You Have will Follow! AUTOMATICALLY!

        Do Not Plan, Do Not Have Agenda! Love Your Spouse As Your Dream Love Before You Marry Them!
        AMERICA Is Different! Just Be HUMAN!!!

        Everything Else Will Fall Into Place! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

        It would be lovely it all that did happen, but in reality it doesn't always happen.

        Anyway..why isn't there...Americans love thy immigrant spouse and She/he Will Eventually love your Family as much as you do?

        Marriage takes two, two equally have to work at it and love each other. Advice apply to both parties, not just for Immigrants.
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        God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too

        National Domestic Violence Hotline:
        1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 1.800.787.

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        • #5
          britney spears should get deported, she was drunk and she got married at the same night and a week later she got divorced, this is fraud and and not a bona fide marriage as well. deport the citizensssss lol

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          • #6
            HAHA! MIKEEEEE!!! We are not referring to Actors! They live in another world!!!

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            • #7
              <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Sprint_girl07:
              <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dcwtech:
              ILW Is a wonderful place to receive HELP! However anyone searching for answers Because They Married for Status? Family security? Any Agenda other Than Marrying Someone For Forever and Always Love! the Ending Wont Be Happy for either One Eventually!

              AMERICA! Those from other Places, If you Love Your Family "which I Know you do" Love your American Wife/Husband as #1! He/She Will Eventually love your Family as much as you do!!! And Will work Hard To HELP!!! DO NOT MARRY FOR STATUS, FOR FAMILY! Find an American You truly love. One that Makes You happy, feels good, Works Together For Common Lifelong Goals! The Good Times and Bad Times Each Always #1 To each Other No Matter What!!!

              This Is The Only Way For Everyone To Ultimately Reach Their Goals!

              Love Thy Wife/Husband #1 More Than Anything Else In This World!!! The Family Part Will Follow Automatically!

              In America, Don't Lie! Don't Cheat! Don't Steal!
              Make Your spouse #1 most Important In Your Life!
              All the Other dreams You Have will Follow! AUTOMATICALLY!

              Do Not Plan, Do Not Have Agenda! Love Your Spouse As Your Dream Love Before You Marry Them!
              AMERICA Is Different! Just Be HUMAN!!!

              Everything Else Will Fall Into Place! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

              It would be lovely it all that did happen, but in reality it doesn't always happen.

              Anyway..why isn't there...Americans love thy immigrant spouse and She/he Will Eventually love your Family as much as you do?

              Marriage takes two, two equally have to work at it and love each other. Advice apply to both parties, not just for Immigrants. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

              YES!!! both Parties! But Remember Residing HERE!!!! This Place, These Rules, Styles, Etc. HERE!

              If I went To Live In Another Part Of The World, I Would Try So Very Hard To Adjust To That Way Of Life! Rules, Lifestyle Etc.

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              • #8
                <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Rough Neighbor:
                <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dcwtech:
                ...

                Find an American You truly love.

                ... </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                By birth or naturalization? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                RN,

                Birth or Naturalization? Doesn't Matter!!!!!
                AMERICA Is a Way of Life!, Living, Ideals!!!
                You Are An American If You Adjust To America!!!

                These Things Do Not Determine What Is American: Religion, Race, Color!!!

                There Are Christian Americans, Catholic Americans, Muslim Americans, Buddhist Americans Etc, Etc,. Those Things Do'nt Make An American!!
                Diversity Is America!!!

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                • #9
                  Sorry DC I disagree. Just because an immigrant marries an American it does not mean that they have to abide by their American's spouses rules!

                  Marriage is a partnership and work at it regardless of what country you are from. Adjusting to culture is another aspect, and you have to do that even if you are not married. That is part of residing in any country not only because you are residing here through marriage.

                  Both have to respect each others cultures, doesn't mean you have to give up and forget your roots.

                  What do you think that everyone else in the world treats spouses differently? That we are all fraudsters and treat our spouses with disrespect or something? That is what it sounds like DC..that because we have come to America we need to step up from what we know and have learned from our own countries?

                  You seriously need to think before you write.
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                  God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too

                  National Domestic Violence Hotline:
                  1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 1.800.787.

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                  • #10
                    I don't care if I get a bashing from saying this...


                    It is people like you DC that give Americans a bad name with your constant stupidity and naive remarks! That is if you are really an American..I seriously have doubts that you are a natural born American the way you keep going on.

                    S12 has his faults but he never comes out with this kind of ****
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                    God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too

                    National Domestic Violence Hotline:
                    1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 1.800.787.

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                    • #11
                      Sprint,

                      American Is Not Rules!!! Not Countries Of Origin! Not Religious Beliefs!

                      AMERICA IS FREEDOM! JUST BE YOURSELF!!! BUT DON'T PUT DOWN ANYONE ELSE BECAUSE OF HOW THEY LOOK ON THE OUTSIDE! OR THEIR RELIGION, HERITAGE, CULTURE!

                      AMERICAN = HUMAN BEING WITH RESPECT FOR OTHER HUMAN BEINGS! Forget Politics, Media, Government, Etc. Most Americans Feel Same As You Do!!!

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                      • #12
                        <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dcwtech:
                        <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Rough Neighbor:
                        <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dcwtech:
                        ...

                        Find an American You truly love.

                        ... </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                        By birth or naturalization? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                        RN,

                        Birth or Naturalization? Doesn't Matter!!!!!
                        AMERICA Is a Way of Life!, Living, Ideals!!!
                        You Are An American If You Adjust To America!!!

                        These Things Do Not Determine What Is American: Religion, Race, Color!!!

                        There Are Christian Americans, Catholic Americans, Muslim Americans, Buddhist Americans Etc, Etc,. Those Things Do'nt Make An American!!
                        Diversity Is America!!! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                        Well, the way you said it, it seemed that being an 'American' is so 'distinct' from the rest of the human species.

                        Or, let me put it this way, what made you think that not being an American puts another human being outside of the 'mold' that you have created.

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                        • #13
                          <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dcwtech:
                          Sprint,

                          American Is Not Rules!!! Not Countries Of Origin! Not Religious Beliefs!

                          AMERICA IS FREEDOM! JUST BE YOURSELF!!! BUT DON'T PUT DOWN ANYONE ELSE BECAUSE OF HOW THEY LOOK ON THE OUTSIDE! OR THEIR RELIGION, HERITAGE, CULTURE!

                          AMERICAN = HUMAN BEING WITH RESPECT FOR OTHER HUMAN BEINGS! Forget Politics, Media, Government, Etc. Most Americans Feel Same As You Do!!! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                          Practice what you preach!!!!!!
                          -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
                          God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too

                          National Domestic Violence Hotline:
                          1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 1.800.787.

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                          • #14
                            <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Rough Neighbor:
                            <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dcwtech:
                            <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by Rough Neighbor:
                            <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by dcwtech:
                            ...

                            Find an American You truly love.

                            ... </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                            By birth or naturalization? </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                            RN,

                            Birth or Naturalization? Doesn't Matter!!!!!
                            AMERICA Is a Way of Life!, Living, Ideals!!!
                            You Are An American If You Adjust To America!!!

                            These Things Do Not Determine What Is American: Religion, Race, Color!!!

                            There Are Christian Americans, Catholic Americans, Muslim Americans, Buddhist Americans Etc, Etc,. Those Things Do'nt Make An American!!
                            Diversity Is America!!! </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                            Well, the way you said it, it seemed that being an 'American' is so 'distinct' from the rest of the human species.

                            Or, let me put it this way, what made you think that not being an American puts another human being outside of the 'mold' that you have created. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                            Well said RN!
                            -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
                            God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too

                            National Domestic Violence Hotline:
                            1.800.799.SAFE (7233) 1.800.787.

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                            • #15
                              Sprint,

                              Dont Look At Me as American Or Anything Else. see Me As Just a Person! Maybe Different Than You, However, Just a Person!!! Forget About My Origin!

                              "I Was Born In USA, So Where My Parents and Their Parents Before Them! I Grew Up In Black Neighborhood! Poor! Black Does Not Not Say Where from! Some Africa Origin, Some NOT!!! Do Not Ever Assume By Appearances Here!!! I Have Filipino, Mongolian, Chinese, African, British, Spanish, Portuguese, Australian, Etc. Decent Friends! If You ask Them Where They Are From? They Will Be Upset And Tell You They Are AMERICANS!!! Born and Raised Here!!! Don't Even Speak The Ancestral Language!!!

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