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Hello everybody my name is jennifer, I met a guy in mid 2004 he is really handsome and intillgent. When we first met he was honest with me and told me that he came to US on an H1B visa a job visa and after this expired he has over stayed in 2003 but came to US legally in 2000 on job visa and he also paid 2 years of taxes, and he also has bank accounts and valid social security card.
When we met we fell in love and even though i am divorced and i have a baby he still loves me and my baby. he is so down to earth and i feel that i want to live rest of my life with him. we have shared about our life and came to know alot about eachother, we saw that we really love eachother so early 2005 we decided to get married.
But both of our family oppose to our wedding and we tried to convince them alot up until this year then finally we decied to get married without them and I relocated to California. Due to my relocation, I have given my parents power of attorney to take care of my baby in my absence because i did not want to leave my baby with strange baby sitters while i am at work here in california.
After comming to Californi we got married this year in sacramonto county and at this time both our parents dont know yet. However, Our marriage is not a secret as all our friends know just our parents and sibblings dont know as of yet but we plan to tell them once everything is settled down for us. we just did not want to tell now because we love eachother and dont want to loose eachother, as mention above.
Now I found good job in south california and his job is in north california we are confused on to where to file our papers, in Sacremento county or in Los Angeles county becuase we want everything to work out fast for us. For now i commute to sacremento every week on friday and return on sunday due to my job here in south california. As far as our jobs are concern he cant relocate to south because he cant work anywhere else without his work permit and my job i cant leave and relocate to north because i have my expenses so i need my job. after he has his work permit we will live together in south california, as he will find any job here and i already have my job here in southern california. this problem is just for the current situation due to our jobs locations, as i have mention everything will be normal for us once he has his work permit and he will be able to work anywhere.
We are confused to give our address in north or south or give seperate address, becauase per our situation do you think that it will be okay to provide with seperate living address as long as we can prove that we lived at both of this address together, but just not everyday as we are together every weekend and this is only due to our job locations we are unable to live together everyday. This is why we decided to provide our mailing address as p.o. box that we already have in sacremento. and when he has his work permit after we will be living together because then he can work any where insted of being stuck at that one job in north california as he is now.
Once everything is settle down with our situation, we plan to tell our parents everything and also have my baby live with us and start our family as well.
In our longterm goals we eventually want to share together a normal happy loving life. So we are going through this strugle now becuase we love eachother alot and want to live together happy loving life forever.
what papers would we need to filed, how we have to file, how much time we should expect for work permit or all together. when they call for interview what evidence we would need to show we are together, and what questions can we expect to be asked at the time of interview.
Please advise us on how to go about with our situation. Thank you
When we met we fell in love and even though i am divorced and i have a baby he still loves me and my baby. he is so down to earth and i feel that i want to live rest of my life with him. we have shared about our life and came to know alot about eachother, we saw that we really love eachother so early 2005 we decided to get married.
But both of our family oppose to our wedding and we tried to convince them alot up until this year then finally we decied to get married without them and I relocated to California. Due to my relocation, I have given my parents power of attorney to take care of my baby in my absence because i did not want to leave my baby with strange baby sitters while i am at work here in california.
After comming to Californi we got married this year in sacramonto county and at this time both our parents dont know yet. However, Our marriage is not a secret as all our friends know just our parents and sibblings dont know as of yet but we plan to tell them once everything is settled down for us. we just did not want to tell now because we love eachother and dont want to loose eachother, as mention above.
Now I found good job in south california and his job is in north california we are confused on to where to file our papers, in Sacremento county or in Los Angeles county becuase we want everything to work out fast for us. For now i commute to sacremento every week on friday and return on sunday due to my job here in south california. As far as our jobs are concern he cant relocate to south because he cant work anywhere else without his work permit and my job i cant leave and relocate to north because i have my expenses so i need my job. after he has his work permit we will live together in south california, as he will find any job here and i already have my job here in southern california. this problem is just for the current situation due to our jobs locations, as i have mention everything will be normal for us once he has his work permit and he will be able to work anywhere.
We are confused to give our address in north or south or give seperate address, becauase per our situation do you think that it will be okay to provide with seperate living address as long as we can prove that we lived at both of this address together, but just not everyday as we are together every weekend and this is only due to our job locations we are unable to live together everyday. This is why we decided to provide our mailing address as p.o. box that we already have in sacremento. and when he has his work permit after we will be living together because then he can work any where insted of being stuck at that one job in north california as he is now.
Once everything is settle down with our situation, we plan to tell our parents everything and also have my baby live with us and start our family as well.
In our longterm goals we eventually want to share together a normal happy loving life. So we are going through this strugle now becuase we love eachother alot and want to live together happy loving life forever.
what papers would we need to filed, how we have to file, how much time we should expect for work permit or all together. when they call for interview what evidence we would need to show we are together, and what questions can we expect to be asked at the time of interview.
Please advise us on how to go about with our situation. Thank you
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