Ashmat,
I feel for ya'. Although I am married to an illegal that came here one time and stayed and never got caught, it's pretty much the same for us right now. There is no hope as I understand it at this time for legal status. I've been told on this board that if he goes back to Mexico and waits, they would find out we were married here and they would not grant legal status as he entered illegally!! He has worked for the same company for 8 years and we have been married almost 2 and have a boy who will be 3 in August.
We have pretty much decided to have him stay and wait it out and hope and pray that some kind of law passes that allows people that can prove long term valid employment or that 245i comes back around(i don't think it will though). We married after the 245i date ended. We were not ready until then and it would have been morally wrong in my opinion to have married for that reason only to apply under 245i.
So hopefully god is with us and if we wait it out and do our best to abide by all laws and live a morally just life something will change so our spouses don't have to live in the shadows. It kind of leaves for an uncertain future so don't ever forget that it's possible that our husbands could be deported any minute!!
There is a lot of negative air on this board but also a lot of good info so keep checking back and say your prayers and vote, vote, vote!!!!
I feel for ya'. Although I am married to an illegal that came here one time and stayed and never got caught, it's pretty much the same for us right now. There is no hope as I understand it at this time for legal status. I've been told on this board that if he goes back to Mexico and waits, they would find out we were married here and they would not grant legal status as he entered illegally!! He has worked for the same company for 8 years and we have been married almost 2 and have a boy who will be 3 in August.
We have pretty much decided to have him stay and wait it out and hope and pray that some kind of law passes that allows people that can prove long term valid employment or that 245i comes back around(i don't think it will though). We married after the 245i date ended. We were not ready until then and it would have been morally wrong in my opinion to have married for that reason only to apply under 245i.
So hopefully god is with us and if we wait it out and do our best to abide by all laws and live a morally just life something will change so our spouses don't have to live in the shadows. It kind of leaves for an uncertain future so don't ever forget that it's possible that our husbands could be deported any minute!!
There is a lot of negative air on this board but also a lot of good info so keep checking back and say your prayers and vote, vote, vote!!!!
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