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Just a Final Thought and seeking legal advise.
i finally have understood why the girl wanted to marry me. She was trying to get out of her parents house. When we met, she saw in me an innocent and harmless male. So, she thought it was ok to take advantage of me. She has finally decided to move on even though I am asking her to stay in the marriage. I have suggested that we continue marriage counselling, but she does not wants to stay in the marriage anymore. Reason? I helped her settle down in a bigger city and pressured her to go back to school so that she can improve her skills. She says that's not what she ever wanted. Anyway, it's just an excuse for her to get her way out.
Now, as it pertains to legal matter, I would like to avoid any surprise. I have 3 questions and would love an input from anybody:
1- USCIS: we stayed married for over 6 months and less than a year after the green card. She said that I am paying for her insurances and rents because I am affraid that USCIS will investigate if we divorce. It's unfortunate that no matter what I do, she will always use it for that purpose. I am not worried about USCIS doing an investigation, because we lived together, met famillies members and other close friends and had asset together. Is it true USCIS will still do an investigation even though she is filling for divorce and we stayed married little over 6 months after the green card? I am asking this question because she took everything from my appartment when she left including all the papers. I want to avoid any surprise. One more thing I have been wondering about is that she never showed me our wedding video even though I asked for it many times to watch it together. Is that culturally normal?
2-I work in all white department. Do you think I will be fired if I am not married to a white woman? I want realistic and honest answer here. I am not looking for politically correct answer, but what in reality happens. I am asking this question because after I was hired in that company, I was treated like **** until they met my wife. After the saw that she was white, they started to treat me with some respect. So, would they get rid of me if they find out I am no longer married to that white woman? I need to know this so that I can prepare my resume and get ready to hunt jobs.
3-How likely Am I to be liable for a spousal support? I make a over 40k and she makes around 7 dollars an hour. We are both going to school and havent been married for more than 3 years. I am letting her keep every asset we had built together and I will continue paying for her rent and insurances until she files the divorce papers. Will the judge still grant her alimony ? If yes, is it going to be permanent? And How much around that could be? (A rough estimate)
Thank you for your input.
i finally have understood why the girl wanted to marry me. She was trying to get out of her parents house. When we met, she saw in me an innocent and harmless male. So, she thought it was ok to take advantage of me. She has finally decided to move on even though I am asking her to stay in the marriage. I have suggested that we continue marriage counselling, but she does not wants to stay in the marriage anymore. Reason? I helped her settle down in a bigger city and pressured her to go back to school so that she can improve her skills. She says that's not what she ever wanted. Anyway, it's just an excuse for her to get her way out.
Now, as it pertains to legal matter, I would like to avoid any surprise. I have 3 questions and would love an input from anybody:
1- USCIS: we stayed married for over 6 months and less than a year after the green card. She said that I am paying for her insurances and rents because I am affraid that USCIS will investigate if we divorce. It's unfortunate that no matter what I do, she will always use it for that purpose. I am not worried about USCIS doing an investigation, because we lived together, met famillies members and other close friends and had asset together. Is it true USCIS will still do an investigation even though she is filling for divorce and we stayed married little over 6 months after the green card? I am asking this question because she took everything from my appartment when she left including all the papers. I want to avoid any surprise. One more thing I have been wondering about is that she never showed me our wedding video even though I asked for it many times to watch it together. Is that culturally normal?
2-I work in all white department. Do you think I will be fired if I am not married to a white woman? I want realistic and honest answer here. I am not looking for politically correct answer, but what in reality happens. I am asking this question because after I was hired in that company, I was treated like **** until they met my wife. After the saw that she was white, they started to treat me with some respect. So, would they get rid of me if they find out I am no longer married to that white woman? I need to know this so that I can prepare my resume and get ready to hunt jobs.
3-How likely Am I to be liable for a spousal support? I make a over 40k and she makes around 7 dollars an hour. We are both going to school and havent been married for more than 3 years. I am letting her keep every asset we had built together and I will continue paying for her rent and insurances until she files the divorce papers. Will the judge still grant her alimony ? If yes, is it going to be permanent? And How much around that could be? (A rough estimate)
Thank you for your input.
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