Desperate for advise

[Artrus]

Both you Dmartmar and SOM are judging without a clue!! How dare you judge me or my wife? How did the two of you become experts on human interactions? Is it that you have not gotten laid in a while? And because of that you sit in front of a computer bashing people who need honest advise. As I posted in my previous discussion, please live a little, travel, go see other places and other cultures, this world is really beatiful and there's plenty of human beings out there that can probably sweeten your lives a little. I've known my current wife for years (before she got married the first time) and I knew when I decided to go live with her that my life wasn't going to be easy but all the love that she has to give and all the attention that I get from my wife is payment enough for the hassle of having to cope with this very outdated and ridiculous immigration system.

[dmartmar]

Nobody's judging you.

But both SOM and I know what we're talking about and what's really behind an abusive husband when it comes to immigration.