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  • ircroxy
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    ok, here is *some* of the things that happened throughout my 4.5 yrs of marriage. He had numerous affairs, some of which would snail mail items to our home or phone. One I confronted. He packed up and moved out before leaving me a "dear jane letter" but came back two days later. He got one pregnant then had an abortion. He admitted these things to me and some friends. He loves his bikes and beer and girls. He was in an accident 2 yrs ago and it was then I found out he took cocaine.I tried *so* hard to save my marriage with doing things that would make him happy, within the law and my morals. He was not intimate with me in the last year or so and moved himself to another room. When I finally left it was because he had attacked my daughter with my infant grand daughter in her arms. I had to get between them and have her leave the room. He demaned I leave with my *trash*. He called 911 to have us removed but then left. The police showed up and I told them what was going on. The police suggested I either put a restraining order on him OR go to the shelter. I knew an order would not stop my spouse as his bike and his *things* were too important to him. I did ask him to move when he returned to the home but he refused, stating he'd be dead before he left.So, we went to the shelter. I do have an attorney who said I would file divorce of bed and board which apparently is a form of abandonment. I am gathering the info she needs to file, BUT we have to locate him to serve him. All I know is he is in Florida somewhere. Recently found out he did not pay 4 months of mortgage and has filed bankruptsy. I went into the home when I found out he'd left and it resembled a fly by night escape. It was/is a disaster.So, here I sit and wait for my interview. I considered rescheduling but could not think of a valid reason believable to do so as it is a months notice.

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  • 4now
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    Hello Icroxy

    Am sorry to hear of your situation. You have offered only limited information on your situation. Much like the limited info you will be taking into your interview of which you will be DENIED! Your status will terminate and if you do not act you will go into removal proceedings soon after. We are not asking you for the "dirt" just some facts so that we can help you decide the best course of action. Did you do anything that allowed your husband to get away with removing you from the house? I ask because this type of thing in general is not allowed. Your story is coming across as very thin and vague.

    I am giving you this very valuable suggestion so please take it and act immediately on it....

    Make sure you have filed for divorce (even if it one day before interview) before attending that interview. this way you will get a chance to request a continuance in your case and get additional time to submit your 751 waiver. for bonafide marriage or or abuse. whichever is applicable/or both.

    You had better get "cracking" on evidences of bonafide marriage or your waiver also will be denied. Contact Catholic social Services if you cannot afford to file divorce with a lawyer.

    Otherwise, you should make plans to voluntary depart back to your homeland. You are in a serious situation here.
    Best wishes.

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  • ircroxy
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    I have decided to go ahead and keep this appointment for my I-751 joint application interview. Even though my spouse has abandoned me I feel I must attend. I have done nothing wrong or illegal and don't wish to hide. I will face them, tell them what has transpired and hope that since we were together 4.5 yrs that that will count for something. I don't have much to take since when I went to the shelter I went with what was on my back, and he packed up all and took it with him. I will get a letter from the shelter and from friends and coworkers, but am unsure what else to take. Anyone have ideas? I'm almost sure they'll deny me and I'll have to start another waiver. Im wondering though if it matters if I file legal papers before or after the interview?

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  • ircroxy
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    IF immigration needs to know all the nasty details, then I will reveal it to them, if asked. I just didn't want to post it public for the world to see. Thanks for your advice, I have searched some of the links you've provided and will continue. I still haven't thought of a good reason to give for putting off the appointment though. Any suggestions?

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  • Pasha Patel
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    Hi ircroxy,

    Sorry to hear about your condition .... I understand that you don't like to publish your details even in front of BCIS but if you don't then you already lost the battle .... U must tell them truth and that's your only chance ... well I recommend you spend enough time and read all those links coz that way you will have lots of ideas what to do ....

    I admit people are little bit tired of discussing I – 751 on this board but take advantage of those links coz almost all issues with I – 751 have been discussed in great details .... And then if u get some questions ...ask here ... I m sure people will help you....

    I m just wondering if there is no way to contact him ... I believe you will have to wait for certain period before divorce could be granted .... Try to collect as many evidences as u can for possible abuse ... and kindly read that link .... U will have every answer to each your possible question...good luck...Pasha

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  • ardainia
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    You cannot appear at a I-751 with a joint petition without your spouse, you will be denied. You must postpone ASAP! Site whatever circumstances you need to in order to postpone it! Also contact your husband ASAP and see if he will go with you or what or file immediately...this you cannot put off! Keep us posted.

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  • ircroxy
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    Thanks Pasha and Aquila. Pasha, I never mentioned any of this in March, as it only happened in Dec - present. Yes, there were things he did throughout our marriage that were not good, and I really didn't want to publish allt he nastys on the internet. I had hoped my husband would come around and stop doing things he had been, but I've now come to terms with the fact that I'm fighting a losing battle. I cannot talk to him to help me, two reasons. One, I don't understandhow he would help me or could and second, I don't know how to contact him.
    Aquila, we filed the joint I-751 with the TSC. I've spoken to the shelter and they said they would write a letter but I don't know what all I should include. I hate to have my dirty laundry in print. I can get letters notorized by friends and neighbors, but only a couple of people because again, I kept very personal, if you know what I mean. Also, how do you put off an interview? What reason could I possibly give? I know my husband leaving has put a damper into things, but what can I gain by putting it off? I'm just trying to understand it. Thanks for your info and I'll be sure to read up on that link.

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  • Aguila
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    Which one was your Service Center? You would probably need affidavits from workers of the shelter to get evidences for a battered spouse waiver, however follow what Pasha has said! try to postpone that interview!

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  • Pasha Patel
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    Hi ircroxy,

    Sorry to hear about your situation. I don't recall you giving details about your case before.... Your lawyer is right... if you gave all this info before I guess you would have gotten lot of info in march...but that's ok... now so u have been called for interview regarding your joint I 751 ... u must appear there with your spouse...

    Try to talk to her if she can help you out ....that will be the first action ....

    If she doesn't agree try to postpone interview giving some strong reason and work on your spouse if she wants to help you out ...

    If no success ....work on divorce and try to request Immigration officer to wait for your divorce to be finalized ....

    If no success .... File abuse waiver as it seems to me kinda abuse ...but u got to have evidences to prove it....

    I guess u will receive some very good info from board members ....

    Visit this link ...

    http://discuss.ilw.com/eve/forums?a=...01#14010348901

    u will get lot of info about I 751 ...though I never got any chance to update those links ever since I posted....but there is more than enough info to know all ifs and buts about I 751 .... Wish you all the best.... Pasha

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  • ircroxy
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    Here is a brief history.. Married May 1999.. Joint I-751 filed, NOA Jan 2003. December 14 2004 went to shelter..forced from home by USC spouse. Jan 2004 rented apt. Between then and beginning of may,USC spouse packed up house and went out of state, (somewhere in FL). Have received interview date for June. Any ideas on how I go about this interview without a spouse? There has been no paperwork filed in regards to seperation/divorce, although my attorney suggests to me to file for divorce of bed and board. Thanks in advance for any ideas.

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  • ircroxy
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    I-751 Interview Date Received

    Here is a brief history.. Married May 1999.. Joint I-751 filed, NOA Jan 2003. December 14 2004 went to shelter..forced from home by USC spouse. Jan 2004 rented apt. Between then and beginning of may,USC spouse packed up house and went out of state, (somewhere in FL). Have received interview date for June. Any ideas on how I go about this interview without a spouse? There has been no paperwork filed in regards to seperation/divorce, although my attorney suggests to me to file for divorce of bed and board. Thanks in advance for any ideas.
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