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    i came here with a tourist visa on july of 2002. met this guy a month after, fell in love and end up not leaving the country . after we got married on april of 2003, i worked on my papers right away so i can stay here with him legally and start a new life and family. got my cgc and everything was fine. here's the problem, our marriage didn't end up the way its supposed to be. we both realized that there is so much differences between us, gambling, different culture, my daughter from my previous relationship is always an issue. he couldn't accept the fact that one day my 6 yrs old daughter will come over and live with us, (he also knows that i was badly battered in my previous relationship and in my country there is no law for battered women). and there is more arguements and fight in our relationship. he's very unfaithful. last year, he kick me out of the house and move to another state for a few months. no communication until this year, when i had a chance to talk to him, he told me that he is filling for a divorce and i agreed. he said that he don't want to deal with me anymore and told me not to bother him ever again. next month is the finalization of my divorce. i talked to a lawyer and told him that my marriage is in good faith but i dont have enough proof. we don't have insurance, no credit card, no bills to pay, his family is paying for it, we lived with them. 3 months bank account thats never used. my exhusband is in debt. he has a gambling problem. he's never been cooperative ever since, i'm always having a problem with him about this. he's never been there for me and now i'm paying for it. my lawyer told me that the chances of getting approval is so weak. i don't have enough proof that this is bonafide. god, i don't know what to do, i can't eat, sleep and my mind is always somewhere. i don't want to go back. i've suffered so much in my life already i don't want to get deported, please i need your advice... please help =(

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    i came here with a tourist visa on july of 2002. met this guy a month after, fell in love and end up not leaving the country . after we got married on april of 2003, i worked on my papers right away so i can stay here with him legally and start a new life and family. got my cgc and everything was fine. here's the problem, our marriage didn't end up the way its supposed to be. we both realized that there is so much differences between us, gambling, different culture, my daughter from my previous relationship is always an issue. he couldn't accept the fact that one day my 6 yrs old daughter will come over and live with us, (he also knows that i was badly battered in my previous relationship and in my country there is no law for battered women). and there is more arguements and fight in our relationship. he's very unfaithful. last year, he kick me out of the house and move to another state for a few months. no communication until this year, when i had a chance to talk to him, he told me that he is filling for a divorce and i agreed. he said that he don't want to deal with me anymore and told me not to bother him ever again. next month is the finalization of my divorce. i talked to a lawyer and told him that my marriage is in good faith but i dont have enough proof. we don't have insurance, no credit card, no bills to pay, his family is paying for it, we lived with them. 3 months bank account thats never used. my exhusband is in debt. he has a gambling problem. he's never been cooperative ever since, i'm always having a problem with him about this. he's never been there for me and now i'm paying for it. my lawyer told me that the chances of getting approval is so weak. i don't have enough proof that this is bonafide. god, i don't know what to do, i can't eat, sleep and my mind is always somewhere. i don't want to go back. i've suffered so much in my life already i don't want to get deported, please i need your advice... please help =(

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      Katherine,

      I feel really sorry for you, but unfortunately I don't know the answer and have any advice at all. But maybe if you went back home, and apply for a tourist visa again, you can always come back to the US, and then maybe while you're back in the states with tourist visa, you can still talk to a couple people and friends (you must have some after being in the US for 3 years!) who maybe can help you to apply for a job, who will then sponsor you a job visa (J). All I can say, good luck! And maybe it's better if you go home, start a new life, with your cute little daughter, who must be feeling pretty unloved, and unwanted. Take care~
      Ability may get you to the top, but it takes character to keep you there.

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