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  • nowherebutup
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    4wownow RULES!

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  • mike_2007
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    lol

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  • Sprint_girl07
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    actually maybe a pink one suits him more lol

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  • mike_2007
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    lol lol and where is my avatar sprint? iam the boss lol

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  • Sprint_girl07
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    4now the Discussion Board traffic cop

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  • dcwtech
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    <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by 4now:
    Hello Tech


    frankly, I am embarrased at the treatment you have received here on ILW. Please do not be discouraged to not come here.

    I have not been able to figure out your story or what you are asking.. Not because of your spelling and there is nothing wrong with your writing sir BTW. I am sure your math skills exceed many on this forum. (It is called nit pic) But it looks like you are here because you are in pain about a marriage gone bad whether it due to immigration gc or just incompatibility or both.

    In anyway, the point is that you are in pain and that is what matters most.


    Yes you seem a bit over the top to some.. multiple threads instead of keeping to one thread, but now you have the routine down to one or two threads. And I like others will request you post same topic to one thread Reason/explanation is because it clutters the board where an immigration question may get missed to be answered.

    Now you have expressed some generalizations or better put.. your perception of fillipino culture . This often happens when something bad has happened in a relationship or marriage between two cultures. You will just have to learn to work thru not being biased agaisnt this culture, as your writings have been found offensive to others of the same culture. There are good and bad in every culture. Perhaps through the discourse of the other fillipinos here, you will have become more enlightned on the true culture there instead of making stereotype generalizations about such.

    As we all learn tolerance.. tolerance of one another the more easy it will be to get along.

    If you are not able to answer immigration questions for posters, please feel free to join in any discussions on the board or comment on any articles being posted.

    This is America the land of freedom of speech and the right to disagree. The right to choose any avatar you please no matter how many people are already using the same. the right to come on to a PUBLIC FORUM and even rant if you so please

    So I wish you good luck in your future with you and your son, and a financial recovery to take you back to the top of the line.

    P.S. Do you mind changing your avatar because that sphere has long been one of my favorites and I was thinking about using it in the future </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
    The best explanation I can give,
    I trusted my wife and her family, they brought illegal, activity into my home. more than one thing. which jeopardizes everyone.
    when i disagreed with the activity and made many attempts to explain how it could have a severe negative affect on everyone , instead of compromise, they decided to just get rid of me. yes it did hurt when your own wife has no input and makes no effort to resolve. I was only important until they got what they set out to get. a combination of marriage and Immigration issues. as far as Filipino culture and my experiences. I love Filipinos! i just happen to be in an area where there are more of the bad i suppose. i thank god i've also had the opportunity to also experience great ones.

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  • dcwtech
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    to 4now,
    thanks for you kind words, and ill only be on here for a few more days. lots of activities coming soon and such. and you are more than welcome to have the sphere avatar when i'm gone HAHAHA. NO FIGHTING OVER IT GUYS!!

    TO ALL, I wont have much time to be on here after this week. getting Busy. Don't Cry guys I know you will miss the numerous posts etc. HaHa..
    I would like to thank everyone for the attention, compassion, teachings, and kind words. Alot of good people on here.

    Remember! NO FIGHTING OVER THE AVATAR WHEN IM GONE! I might check in every once in awhile to see if everyone is behaving themselves. HaHa.

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  • Jake01
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    Well said 4now, DCWtech that avatar is cool, and I have not seen it before, but then again I haven't been here as long as others,, As 4now said you are getting to grips with the board, and not posting new threads all the time, which is good. I wish you all the luck for you and your son.

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  • Sprint_girl07
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    The cool avatar has been about on the board recently, was used by Makinis a newish member.
    I did see some with different colors out there, in fact I saw one that changed colors as it was turning, well cool.

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  • Jeanine
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    @iperson: hello she! Well, this is a true story and I thought to share it so he/she will see that we all make mistakes, and we all have bad sides, but we are all HUMANS! And we all have reason why we act the way we act, and we can't make an assumption just by meeting a national who is not completely under control of one's own action!! I made that mistake, and it's something I will never forget, and wish I could go back in time and delete that part of my life! I was bad, and made an assumption just because of one single person! Grave mistake one can ever make!
    Ryn: that's cool that your BF was a Romanian.... See, how small the world is?

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  • Jeanine
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    just now reading it through....I made a few grammatical errors...sorry, I was typing fast..I guess you still can get the idea...if not, lemme know, I'll correct them..

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  • Jeanine
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    @4now: very well said...thank you! You're completely right!
    @tech: you know I could just tell you a story...but in a nutshell: one time I met someone (it was just a plain friendship, not marriage, or green card, or even a single relationship) and later on this friendship gone bad. The person who I was friend with was from Romania. Now, after our friendship ended, I made the assumptions that people Romania are like this person...thus, whenever I heard someone was from Romania, I tried to avoid the person, and not even bug myself to get to know one. Later on in life, at my workplace (in a laboratory) I had to share a lab table with a new person. Guess what?! It turned out she was from Romania....I was shocked, and when I went home after the spending the first day with this new person, I thought somehow I would ask my boss to place me somewhere else, without letting him know that my problem is actually that the lady is from Romania. But then I slept over it, and next day I told myself, I can probably handle the situation....and guess what, it's been 4 years I'm working with this lady, and she's awesome! Since I met her, if I meet someone, or hear the word "Romania" I just smile, and feel that I like them because they are just as humans as everyone...just because I had a bad experience earlier...means NOTHING! So, yes, you shouldn't generalize when thinking or meeting a person from the Phillipines...every nation has bad people, and good people. EVERY! Even here in America! Everywhere! So, accept them, and treat them nice....I still feel bad about how I was feeling earlier and I wish I could take those feelings back...

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  • 4now
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    Hello Tech


    frankly, I am embarrased at the treatment you have received here on ILW. Please do not be discouraged to not come here.

    I have not been able to figure out your story or what you are asking.. Not because of your spelling and there is nothing wrong with your writing sir BTW. I am sure your math skills exceed many on this forum. (It is called nit pic) But it looks like you are here because you are in pain about a marriage gone bad whether it due to immigration gc or just incompatibility or both.

    In anyway, the point is that you are in pain and that is what matters most.


    Yes you seem a bit over the top to some.. multiple threads instead of keeping to one thread, but now you have the routine down to one or two threads. And I like others will request you post same topic to one thread Reason/explanation is because it clutters the board where an immigration question may get missed to be answered.

    Now you have expressed some generalizations or better put.. your perception of fillipino culture . This often happens when something bad has happened in a relationship or marriage between two cultures. You will just have to learn to work thru not being biased agaisnt this culture, as your writings have been found offensive to others of the same culture. There are good and bad in every culture. Perhaps through the discourse of the other fillipinos here, you will have become more enlightned on the true culture there instead of making stereotype generalizations about such.

    As we all learn tolerance.. tolerance of one another the more easy it will be to get along.

    If you are not able to answer immigration questions for posters, please feel free to join in any discussions on the board or comment on any articles being posted.

    This is America the land of freedom of speech and the right to disagree. The right to choose any avatar you please no matter how many people are already using the same. the right to come on to a PUBLIC FORUM and even rant if you so please

    So I wish you good luck in your future with you and your son, and a financial recovery to take you back to the top of the line.

    P.S. Do you mind changing your avatar because that sphere has long been one of my favorites and I was thinking about using it in the future

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  • dcwtech
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    So sorry1 mr iperson!
    after Careful study of those and Their Ideas Of Whats important. 'To Them" It was necessary To Express The Actual! Real! Truth!

    No ill Respect Intended Sir!

    This Is America! Freedom Of Speech Ands Say what befalls Oneself, Until That Time of Disintegrate! Where The truth Is Hidden And Those That Care Are eliminated!

    Sorry Sir!

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  • dcwtech
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    Its ok Iperson,
    Ive seen And Experienced Things i Know You Think Are Fraudulent Or unbelievable! isn't freedom Of Speech An American Thing???

    Most People No Clue As To What Is Really Out There!
    i Thank God I Was Able To see It First Hand! 100,000 Homes And Businesses I Have Been In! All walks Of Life! REAL!!!

    the Nice Thing About being American! You Can Condemn Or reject Anything You Don't Believe. Just remember You Are Only one! And There Are Others That See More Than You Are Able To see!

    believe It Or Not? i Like Some Of Your Words!

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