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    I don't think if I will do that.. It does't matter and will show that the married does't exest and I will become illegal in this country. It was hard to do that and there is no one welling to marry right away. I don't want to marry again either. If I'm not married to him for 90 days and had met someone another and adjust my status I think it will be fine. But he didin't file my residency for now almost 1 year now and I'm finding the way with his help. What should Ido for?. If you asking to file devorce and marry to someone another I think it was hard. And I don't think if he can help me and I don't want to use him to get a green card and I'm not.
    I will marry if I have feeling to him not to use him.

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    So if you had married your fiance first, then divorce him after a few month...and later marry another USCitizen...would you be able to ajust your status or not?

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    Why we cann't still be able to adjust our legal status when we are not married the fiancee?. It sound they are selling us and have to marry them. Yes, we need to know them better thats why we are here but the problems insted of we will known them they are not acting good for us. Insted of we will love them more they are giving us a bad life. And when we found someone another to marry us and really taking care for us the INS are our enemy and cann't adjust status. The fiancee petitioner treated us badly and what will be happen to us when we will come back in our home that has bad experienced?. For not just married cann't adjust legal status what it is???. My husband is not treating me good too but I still married him because I don't want to stay illegal here and I have no family here that I can stay. My husband is alcoholic I want to leave him but I was scared that I can stay illegal here. He didn't file my AOS almost 1 year now. I cann't go anywhere, stay here and serving him like a king. I hate this life I want to be free!!!!!! How if I will leave but how about my AOS is not pending yet and If I found another u.s citizen is he can protect me?.If not I will accept too but I don't want to come back in my home with bad experienced. I want eveythings will work out here with me. Why they won't beleive us? I wish this thing should be happened to the people that who are letting us down. God always watching

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    Monick,

    Why cant you adjust your status?

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    I'm not married to my fiancee too and was married to someone another u.s. citizen. Well, How I left him because he is using drugs and want me to use and I don't want it. He bitting me up when we are fighting. Its true for 90 days he doing that to me. I would never leave if he is treating me good like my husband now he is treating me good and I don't have to hurt him(right). I thought to myself before whatever will be happen to me I will accept. But I cann't accepted he bitted me up when we have misunderstanding. Monick we are right that don't marry our fiancee petitioner at least we are not alone in this country and here are a lot of illegal that they are saying and atleast too, we found the men who are welling to marry us and they are supporting us, taking care our expenses. You are right that nobody wanted to go to the first place that soon they will not be fine.

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    x,
    How do you know that i cann't adjust my status even in section 245(i) reinstated? this section has opportunity to someone who are looking a legal status. why some asylum applicants still be able to adjust their status beside they entered without visa. Nobody cann't tell that even you. My marriage now is legal and has good blessing. You doesn't known me. well, it was not my fault when everything doesn't work with my fiancee. I have prove to the INS when my interview will come soon. I will never say like this if everything was not happened to me. Do you think that it will never be happen?. I'm not the one of a million people that you are talking about.I'm not using someone another to have everything I wish. If you were me are you welling to stay with that guy?. If I have not choose to leave what life I have waiting for with him?. If I will stay with him to wait a green card do you think everything goes fine with us? I have a good education and came to a good family. You don't have to treat me like this if you are a citizen you don't need to participate on this board and find your life too, don't waste your time on this board because this board is only for those people who are looking a good advices
    You asking that why I came here at the first place without dating him so do you think he should be able to bring me here if we had not been dating or we doesn't know each other???. We spend our day together for a month before he brought me here, we engaged and he met my family and friends.. He is so nice in the first meeting and he respecting me. I just surprised why he doing that to me beside when we met he is not acting bad to me. Well, I don't care and I don't need you if you should not believe and I don't know you either. Just look your life too because I just found my real life now and I'm happily married and have a cute daughter. well, Everybody wanting a good life and nobody doesn't want a bad life even you. I don't even think to have a bad life and I can protect myself because I'm apart from my family and I have a new family here now and they are my first priority. I came here just wanting to know him better becuase I thought he is a right guy for me and everythings will be fine if we will marry. He want to bring me here he say we will marry and I wanted too because i have a good feeling and I never thinking to use him. I don't want to go to the first place that soon I will not be fine. YEs, if I should not come here how we should know each other better when we are apart. So at least I known him enough and I never regret what I did and I don't have too. If you are asking about adjusting of status well, I will accept it if I'm not eligeble but I will try it and I will never give up. I'm not scared to go back in my country. I'm not working illegal that you say a million people doing here and scared to go back in their home country and I'm not!. I asked already myself X before I did that thing and I was right rather than to have a terriblle life with him. So if you will asking about me now that what life I have ... I will answer you that I'm fine now and I will never thinking about what I will get to my husband and my heart is pure and God knows.. I loved that guy and I will never to come in the fraud marriage that we are sleeping in one bed without love and has interest and I don't want to have a bad dreams until we are being together at night. All people are different just I will remind you... Just think about it what are talking about me. Is that what you think about the million of people who are here??. I hope that God will understand you.

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    monick, you can never able be adjust yr status here even if you married to a us citizen, or even if sec. 245(i) is reinstated, or even if amenesty is granted. Unless you choose to go back to adjust yr status, you always be a illegal here.Millions of people like you who used other just to come here and then blame-oh,my husband did this or that. Why did you come here at first place without dating him or knowing him long enough or if you found that he is not good for you or abusing you then why don't you go back. people like you just look their own goods just to come here, periord. look in soul first, then answer to yourself rather than to us.

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    Me too, never been married to my fiancee petitioner coz he brought me here and treating me as a domestic helper.Cleaning his house, taking care his savages cheldren.. And the only way I really don't want is to have sex every after a minutes!! when i does'nt want he grabbing me and he locking the door... decents people doesn't like this.. I left and not marry him. Found someone another u.s citizen and married me and now happily married.. And i don't care even I cann't adjust my status here at least he taking care of me as well and no problems about the money.

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    swj20,

    I'm so sorry that i don't trusted your story in the board... as my experienced. My fiancee pettitioner brought me here in hell and not treating me well, treat me like a dog. I left him and scared, met someone another u.s citizen and married me and happily married now.He is 40 and am 23 so he is treating me like a queen. Well, your wife will never let you down if you treating her good. She is smartest when she got her residency and left you and found someone else more than you. You don't have to tell to the BCIS that after she get her residency and left you.. It doesn't matter to them. That was a personal problems to both of you not for the INS.... baboooo.

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    we all need to take this matter to congress to make a tough laws (1) to take strong action against a person who entered into shame marriage even though he/she is u.s.citizen (2) to force the ins to take action in this matter rather than ignoring this issue completely.

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    Guest replied
    You can still withdraw your petition I-130. At AOS you will be required to file Affidavit of Support I-864 which is binding for 10 years. It is better for you to withdraw your petition.
    Good luck.

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    the age difference can leads to the experience in life which have most conflicts.
    you have non citizen resource to deport her, but the generous thing to do is to use it as last resort.
    explore your other options, look into your self too by keeping in mind about the generation gap.
    it changes many things in life. many things you know she might don't know and still have to learn.
    take a third openion,
    you should know that when relationship become sour, no one will be able to think straight, both parties want to prove themselves correct but sometime third person sees it which we cannot see because we are in the situation.
    you should decide your relationship fate based on neutral ground.

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    It's convenient to jump to BCIS to seek revenge when the marriage doesn't work out and the spouse is a non-citizen. BCIS (formerly INS) only cares if the marriage was entered on fraud for the sole purpose of obtaining immigration benefits. It doesn't deal with your marriage mess simply because you two can't work it out. My experience is always that there are two sides of a coin and when it comes to bad marriage, there is rarely one total saint and one total devil, Both share responsibilities, one may have a bit more. How likely is it for the marriage between a 47 year old man and a woman almost half of his age to go bad? The answer is probably VERY regardless of nationality, religion, and race. Since you have blamed everything on her, maybe take a break now and look at yourself too.

    Making verbal and physical thread is a criminal act. You should gather enough evidence and then report to local police. Don't always think immigration simply because the party involved is a non-citizen. As I said above, Immgration only deals with marriage issues for a specific purpose.

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    CALL THE INS AND HAVE HER DEPORTED ..THIS IS THE ONLY THING YOU CAN DO TO GIVE HER A LESSON...

    GOOD LUCK

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    Am 47. Married to 26yr.old female latin immigrant.
    She and her family worked through 100,000. of my and my mother's retirement. Left me, after her Conditional Green Card. Made threats for my silence. 9 months later, some man comes to my door, says they had baby, I signed non-paternity, and baby then could get birth certificate, since we are still married. He threatened me for silence. She called, threatened me, and my elderly parents. Am divorcing, broke. Was in hospital for seizure-paralysis, had another episode that left me dazed for days, not myself, now. We stand to be thrown out of where we live from hardships. I gave her cancer surgery, got her off drugs, and saved her from overdose, too. She picked me up on Intenet, flew to my city to convince me to marry her. I was lonely, she lied about abusive brother. She threatened suicide. All lies. I felt sorry, took her under my wing.
    Her family worked me, told me lies. I met people who she told different stories to. What about our AOS interview ? Do I have recourse?

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