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    Our son was born out of wedlock in germany while I was stationed there (army) in 1995. In 1996, after I was deployed back to the states, my girlfriend and son came here on a I-94W visa waiver and we got married in Colorado. My name is not on the german birth certificate because they did not do that back then, only if you were married. After my girlfriend and I got married , we applied for permanent residece for her and my son. The immigration officer said that my son should rather apply for citizenship and we are still stuck on this process. Mainly. because my name is not on the original birth certificate ( the only one my son has ). I failed to register him for a certificate of birth abroad at the german embassy. So there is two problems that we have, one is getting help on how to register my son for a birth abroad without traveling out of country, and secondly, how to change my sons lastname to my lastname (he still has to use my wifes maiden name). We have been living in the USA for 12 years, have not left the country. I had a paternity test done in 2002 confirming 99.98% to be the father of my son. My son did enter legaly into this country. We all live together here in Michigan. My lack of knowledge back then has caused us many hardships, we even hired an adoption attourney to do a relative adoption that way I could be added to the b-certificate and his lastname could be changed to mine, but so far three judges in three different counties said this would not be the proper way to do this, they can only do a name change on a b-certificate of a child born in the USA. If anyone has any suggestions or nows how to send us in to the right direction we would greatly appreciate your input.

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    Our son was born out of wedlock in germany while I was stationed there (army) in 1995. In 1996, after I was deployed back to the states, my girlfriend and son came here on a I-94W visa waiver and we got married in Colorado. My name is not on the german birth certificate because they did not do that back then, only if you were married. After my girlfriend and I got married , we applied for permanent residece for her and my son. The immigration officer said that my son should rather apply for citizenship and we are still stuck on this process. Mainly. because my name is not on the original birth certificate ( the only one my son has ). I failed to register him for a certificate of birth abroad at the german embassy. So there is two problems that we have, one is getting help on how to register my son for a birth abroad without traveling out of country, and secondly, how to change my sons lastname to my lastname (he still has to use my wifes maiden name). We have been living in the USA for 12 years, have not left the country. I had a paternity test done in 2002 confirming 99.98% to be the father of my son. My son did enter legaly into this country. We all live together here in Michigan. My lack of knowledge back then has caused us many hardships, we even hired an adoption attourney to do a relative adoption that way I could be added to the b-certificate and his lastname could be changed to mine, but so far three judges in three different counties said this would not be the proper way to do this, they can only do a name change on a b-certificate of a child born in the USA. If anyone has any suggestions or nows how to send us in to the right direction we would greatly appreciate your input.

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  4. #4
    I will have to research the laws at the time of your sons birth, but you could get a divorce and have your son legimatized in the papers.

  5. #5
    I appreciate the suggestion, but I am not going to divorce my wife whom I love and live with now for 14 years, married for 12 years. I am looking for a way to do a register of birth abroad without traveling out of country. Wondering if anyone has experience in that field.

    shepweb

  6. #6
    Presumably your wife is now a Citizen by now, might be asier to ignore your involvement, her son should have obtained citizenship o the back of her appication.

    And why are you so focussed on the German Birth Certificate, there is no need for your name to be on that to obtain US Citizenshp for your son, a DNA test may be required.

  7. #7
    My wife is not a US Citizen. I am so focused on the german b-certificate because I would like for my son to have my lastname. By law, he has my wifes maiden name as his lastname, because I am not on the b-certificate. I did have a paternity test done a few years back, that's my only document proving that I am the father.

  8. #8
    shepweb,

    Have you spoken to the German consulate? Or the German birth death and marriage offices in Germany?
    They might be able to give you information on how to have your name on the birth certificate.

    The same thing happens in England too, and I know that to have the father's name on it, the father has to be present at registry to have the name on it to, unless you are married of course.

    My certificate had to be changed as my parents were not married when I was born, but once married my birth certificate had to be amended with my mum's last name changed.
    Father usually has to be present to make the amendments or name added on.

    You may well have to go to Germany to do this, but if you call the German consulate offices here in the US, they may find a way for you to do it without having to go there in person.

    Once you get a birth certificate, you will need it translated too, and I am sure the embassy can do this for you.
    It will be worth a call to find out either way.

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  9. #9
    Thank you for the info, I will try this out. I tried to get my son a passport -- which has less requirements when it comes to the proof of citizenship, and thought this document could help me further when it comes to citizenship application but again I got stuck on the lastname. His b-certificate has my wifes maidenname on it and his ssn card has my lastname on it.

  10. #10
    shepweb, I am suprised that SS put your last name on it.
    Maybe there are different rules by States.
    I know in my State I had to produce the birth certificate for my son to get a SS # and they took the names off that, that was their rules.

    My name was changed only because I had to show proof that I was married ( marriage certificate).

    I hope this doesn't cause confusion.

    I was also warned that all my ID's have to be in same name as what immigration had me as otherwise it shows as a red flag through the databases later on. I had to in the end get my last name changed with USCIS so it all tallied up with SS.
    I know he is only a child, but be sure everything does correspond with the other.


    If the only way to get your name on his birth certificate, I would suggest start with the German side, then sort out the US side of things if that is the easiest route then having to adopt him.
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