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Thread: LPR husband can't get letters needed for I751

  1. #1
    No big surprise!!!! suppose to file the I751
    at the end of August. Big problem (another one)
    no US citizen wants to write a letter regarding
    his bona fide marital regime! Another point,
    none of his "native speaking friends" want to
    write either, because they know he has been wrong in his actions!!! so, he says, "i can go home", (his country), get a job elsewhere, or do what I want."
    of course, if it is not filed, he will be
    called in to find out why it was not filed!
    I have tried to help him, I have done everything
    I can. If a guy, just doesn't realize the value
    of what he has. Then he loses it.
    The ball has been in his court, the proof
    is with him. He is truly amazing in a very
    sad way.

  2. #2
    No big surprise!!!! suppose to file the I751
    at the end of August. Big problem (another one)
    no US citizen wants to write a letter regarding
    his bona fide marital regime! Another point,
    none of his "native speaking friends" want to
    write either, because they know he has been wrong in his actions!!! so, he says, "i can go home", (his country), get a job elsewhere, or do what I want."
    of course, if it is not filed, he will be
    called in to find out why it was not filed!
    I have tried to help him, I have done everything
    I can. If a guy, just doesn't realize the value
    of what he has. Then he loses it.
    The ball has been in his court, the proof
    is with him. He is truly amazing in a very
    sad way.

  3. #3
    Can you private message me... I don't know
    how to do it.

  4. #4
    Nireemdi

    How have you been my dear. Hope you have decided to stop being in that pain you have been living.

    Stop tormenting yourself. The letters not being able to be gotten are not a big deal at all. Many applications get submitted and approved without the letters. Do not think that this is going let you have a hold over him. Please give up on this idea. I am hoping that you are not considering holding the signing of the 751 over his head to get him to come back to you. This would not be cool and does not look good on you. If you are not going to sign it... then dont and file for the divorce. This is not a bartering tool for a relationship.


    He has many more youthful years ahead, while yours will start to wane away, the best ones having been wasted on this clown. Please let it go.

    Sammy has given you wonderful kind words, and a wonderful guide that you should follow. Obsession is an outdated fragance these days.. let it be the same for you.

    Take care 4now.

  5. #5
    No, I'm not holding anything over his head at all.
    As he couldn't get any letters (that says alot)
    I asked my son and housekeeper for 1. They didn't
    want to do either. But did for me. Sammy's
    thoughts are wonderful. He is 1 for the books.
    a classic h....a... I'd say. he doesn't even
    speak...and hasn't. I don't really care at all. In fact, he has to be on one **** of a guilt trip. He has lied so much to both sides of this life. Hiswork authorization is extended for 1 year, on the I-797-C. He believes there will be no interview to remove. He does not want to go
    to this, I don't blame him. Neither do I. It wouldn't be good at all. If we have to do the
    interview...and we no show. I'm sure we will
    receive something asking why? so...to me,
    he is a sorrowful person. I hope this haunts
    him for the rest of his life. He will deserve
    it. It would be irony if his friend met a US
    citizen and married him! This would be funny.
    So...the nothing is definitely nothing...on
    our parts. I have been getting my act together...I've grown up. Bout time, I am
    not a vendictative person at all, nor ugly....
    I could be. But i'm not. So, I'm at a good
    point within my self now. It has been hard,
    hurtful..and everything....but I have grown up.

  6. #6
    I've tried to sign up for private messaging..
    I can't seem to get it to work. I follow the
    directions...but it doesn't happen.

  7. #7
    Hi, nireehamdi!

    I noticed you've been asking about private messaging in your last postings.
    I felt compelled to let you know that this web site does not allow private messaging, that is, you cannot private message to anyone through this site.
    If you want to contact a person from this site, you could do that through e-mail.
    If you want to contact Sammy, I still have his e-mail address: sammy7257@msn.com
    Hope this e-mail address is still good and I that he won't mind I'm giving his e-mail address to you.
    He helped a with my immigration case and I believe he could help you,too.

    Good Luck!

  8. #8
    We are schedule for I751 interview. Since filing
    in september, he has not spoken to me. That's
    okey.....i've grown up and away and this is good.
    I will not be going to this interview. He has
    brought all on himself. He knows how to talk
    when doing petitions. 2 friends did letters 4
    him, (they did not want to) because I asked them. He isn't even appreciative of that....so..
    ...whatever he does...is his game... not mine...
    i'm not putting all that I have and risk it for
    someone....who is not worth it. Everything I
    have is on the line! I have tried, I have put
    up with all of his ugliness.....I'm sure
    his outside girlfriend has alot to do with it...
    that's okey too........I have rolled with everything, I have asked for respect and doing
    for our side....to help us....his "not caring"
    and that's okey too....he has become his own
    worst enemy....and dug his own grave.....me...
    I'm moving on...... I have put in all....and
    deserved more than nothing....he put in nothing
    and he is getting exactly that. I am ashamed of
    him.....he certainly had it all....... I have
    taken it all....

  9. #9
    Nireehamdi,

    I have read many of your posts and I am sorry that you had to go through this. I wish you well and hope you will find peace and happiness in whatever you do.

    As far as your ex is concerned, you can't control what he does or what happens to him.

    Please take care of yourself.

    Best wishes,

  10. #10
    I am wrong again. i asked my housekeeper
    and son to do a letter , they didn't want to..
    said they would because I asked. "HE" alien
    wrote the letter.... This is dumb I know...
    THEY want to WITHDRAW THEIR LETTERS!!
    CAN they do this? I will withdraw too..
    rather than support all of this.

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