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Thread: Plight...I751..legal remifications

  1. #1
    I have been reading the posts on the discussions
    I posted.. we are in a hard situation. If I
    do not file the I751 with him, he can possible
    be put into removal proceedings. He was out of
    the country and I have NOT heard from him. So
    upon his return I do not know if he is coming
    back home (our house) or moving in with friend.
    If he moves in with friend....this will be too
    much for me and too ugly..... so I am weighing
    all possibilities.....it's a very hard time for me. I hope he comes home and he and I can
    discuss our situation...and solutions.....I
    just need advice and insight into this plight.
    ...if it happens that there is no contact....
    i should file for divorce.....on grounds of
    abandonment and adultery. he seems to have
    dug his own grave.....this is sad to me...
    ...i have printed the comments on my posts and
    read them .....I appreciate it.
    ...I am upset and scared. So any advice?

  2. #2
    I have been reading the posts on the discussions
    I posted.. we are in a hard situation. If I
    do not file the I751 with him, he can possible
    be put into removal proceedings. He was out of
    the country and I have NOT heard from him. So
    upon his return I do not know if he is coming
    back home (our house) or moving in with friend.
    If he moves in with friend....this will be too
    much for me and too ugly..... so I am weighing
    all possibilities.....it's a very hard time for me. I hope he comes home and he and I can
    discuss our situation...and solutions.....I
    just need advice and insight into this plight.
    ...if it happens that there is no contact....
    i should file for divorce.....on grounds of
    abandonment and adultery. he seems to have
    dug his own grave.....this is sad to me...
    ...i have printed the comments on my posts and
    read them .....I appreciate it.
    ...I am upset and scared. So any advice?

  3. #3
    Michael
    Guest
    You should not let him move back in. You must not allow any "discussion" to take place. You can and must divorce him or get an annullment without his consent and of knowledge and sue for any monetary damages. You should notify BCIS that you are divorcing him or annulling the marriage and that you did not knowingly participate in a fraudulent marriage. You should then forget this guy and move on with your life. Good luck !

  4. #4
    Nireehamdi:

    Some time has passed since your last post, unless I missed something. Did you not discuss repairing the relationship with your husband, prior to his trip? And what leads you to believe that he will not return to the marital home? The "friend" you refer to is the girlfriend, is that correct?

    Have you checked the grounds for divorce in your state? Are you in a no-fault divorce state? Are there any separation requirements prior to divorce in your state?

  5. #5
    Yes....I have been attempting to repair or
    reconcile us. I have not had much cooperation
    from him. I hope we can try together when he
    gets back. The friend is his girlfriend. On
    returning to his marital home...it's just a
    strong gut feeling I have...so i'm not sure. However, I did not take him to the airport
    as I usually do.....his girl friend went with him to airport...and I think she has his car parked at her apartment.....I have not heard from him...he said he would be 3 weeks which is
    about the 24th of this month....but truthfully,
    i do not know if he is in town or not.
    ..I still want us to repair or try to....but
    if he doesn't return to our home...I have no
    choice...I guess i need to contact...ins....
    no separation requirements in our state...I will
    have to check divorce laws.....

  6. #6
    Before this..I knew nothing about fradulant
    marriages....it is so very ugly and degrading....
    and it hurts so much.

  7. #7
    Michael
    Guest
    Are you some kind of idiot ? There is nothing to repair. It's over. You were defrauded. You need some psychiatric help.

  8. #8
    No, not an idiot yet....foolish yes....I am
    afraid of what will happen to him and to me....
    immigration wise....I don't know.

  9. #9
    Nireehamdi:

    How soon would you be required to file the I751? (typically filed 21 months after the date he received his temporary Green Card through marriage to a USC).

    If he does not return to the marital home and chooses to move in with the girlfriend, he will naturally not be able to accrue additional evidences to support the existence of a prevailing marriage, and depending upon what you wish to result from this, you could consider separating all banking at this time.

    Nothing will occur to you with Immigration as a result of your husband's actions. It is he who might encounter hurdles, dependent upon where in the process he is at this time and what you are inclined to do.

  10. #10
    the I751 should be filed about Nov. 25, 2005, about
    3 months before this date. He said something
    about 5 years...I guess for citizenship....the
    actions are all on his part. Emotionally,
    I cannot take much more of this...I am a very
    stable person...but this is too draining.....
    I'm trying to figure out what I am inclined to do..
    if he goes with girl friend....then it's done...
    I hope he comes home and we try to work on us...
    i'm wishful thinking.

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