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Thread: how can alien spouse preserve green card without.....

  1. #1
    I was reading in 2003 on an immigration discussion.
    It says it the discussion......that the alien
    spouse can preserve his green card...if the
    US spouse doesn't cooperate on the I751....he can trick the US spouse.....so I am wondering how this can be done? I am in a similar position...alien using for GC......right now alien spouse has clothes at home but lives elsewhere....he should be reported...we are to go for removal of condition in November 2005...I'm not sure

    he sure is playing a dangerous game...putting
    himself and us at risk..and I don't want to
    be a part of it......
    we will make it.....

  2. #2
    I was reading in 2003 on an immigration discussion.
    It says it the discussion......that the alien
    spouse can preserve his green card...if the
    US spouse doesn't cooperate on the I751....he can trick the US spouse.....so I am wondering how this can be done? I am in a similar position...alien using for GC......right now alien spouse has clothes at home but lives elsewhere....he should be reported...we are to go for removal of condition in November 2005...I'm not sure

    he sure is playing a dangerous game...putting
    himself and us at risk..and I don't want to
    be a part of it......
    we will make it.....

  3. #3
    Neerhamdi, every time I read your posts ( and I have read them since last year), it is obvious to me that you are either of Anglo-Saxon, or German background and upbringing.

    Phrases such as these are unimaginable to come from woman in your particular circumstances with background you claim to have : "he sure is playing a dangerous game...putting
    himself and us at risk..and I don't want to
    be a part of it......
    we will make it.....", which are typically Germanic or English in nature, more like Edgar Allan Poe's novels.

    I suggest you study cultural backgrounds and travel a bit before you start fantasizing on ILW board.


    Best wishes,
    E.

  4. #4
    Hi nireehamadi...

    So u still cant decide what u want to do I guess... your whining is not gonna help u ... u also know that...so either report him or support him...simple as that... whats on ur mind I don't understand at all.... How can he trick u unless u let him trick u...and what kind of dangerous game.... Just divorce him and move on with ur life...good luck...Pasha

  5. #5
    Aren't you the same person who supposedly marry someone 20yrs younger and then start complaining when he has an affair, yet you refused to do anything with it either way?

    Like Pasha said, there's no reason to be tricked to go to interview unless you let yourself being tricked into it. If you really hel-bent on revenge, don't go anywhere with him period and don't divorce him either.

  6. #6
    I'm not really hel-bent on revenge....but I
    feel like he should get a little of what I get...
    all in all I do care...if I don't go anywhere
    and I don't divorce.....we have talked...
    i have asked him to balance his 2 lives...but
    if I don't go anywhere and don't divorce...
    how is this revenge? I'm curious.

  7. #7
    Lets be honest here. If he asked you for a divorce, will you divorce him or not?

    If you won't allow him to divorce you, then why are you preventing him to carry on with his life? What is that called if not revenge? Besides, taken from your own post:
    "...he should be reported..."
    I think that insinuate something for sure.

    Personally, I never understand why you wont just divorce him to begin with and start a clean state. Whats the point of tying your life down with someone as useless as this guy??
    Unless you've other motives as mentioned above.

  8. #8
    hi nireehamdi...

    I have been reading ur posts for over a year now...and cant understand at all...whats on ur mind? Do u really like to suffer? He is cheating on you...he lives with his girlfriend for long time...he comes to u to cry.... What else.... U r double minded .... One time u want to help him out...other time u want to report him... all ur posts starting from first indicates that ur the one who has disturbed emotional status and not ur husband... r u a person with dependent personality? Sorry if I sounded harsh..but u cant blame him if u lack the decision taking ability ... just decide one thing for good... what u want to do...and go for it...either support him or report him...good luck...Pasha

  9. #9
    I am not emotionally disburbed at all. I am
    hurt and am healing out of it. Yes, he should
    be reported. But I do not want to do this because
    we will both regret it. He has opened himself
    and us to public scrutiny with his actions. I
    personally don't care whether he removes his
    conditions or get perm red. at all. He should
    care because it is important and valuable to him. I do not think he realizes this right now. I can understand his single side but he also
    has a married side. In other words, his bread
    is buttered on both sides. He is geting from
    both sides. I also feel that "what goes around
    comes around" and one day he will get what is
    due him. He does not want a divorce as we
    have talked about it. He does not like even
    talking about it. We do have an investment
    in each other. He once asked about "gold card"
    well, our gold card is not balanced at all.
    His 2 lives are in direct conflict. He has
    brought this all on himself. He seems to
    have become his own worst enemy and maybe his
    own downfall. I continue to try and hold on
    because he needs me to do this. It is very
    hard. I made an commitment. I thought he did
    too but I was wrong. Although, he always says..
    I'm not doing anything wrong! I asked him
    "what planet does he live on".? He is caught
    in a terrible web.

  10. #10
    neerhamdi, I think you are doing the right thing.
    Now I can see what an honest, honorable and betrayed woman you are.
    I would like to offer you help, is there anything I can help you with?
    I know couple of young studs who want to get a GC and really don't care who they would need to marry for it.
    All they ask is $10.000
    So, we will help you get a young stud, for couple of years, at very least.
    Some of them have legendary tools, if you know what I mean
    And you can permanently kick your husband out of your life.
    Praise be to honor, honesty and neerhamdi!


    Email me if you are interested in offer:
    Epic@laughter.net

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