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    Every site I read it saids in order to obtain a K-1 Fiancee visa you must both meet in person. I understand if you have never seen her before, but with the internet we have been seeing each other for over a year on web cam, I also met her family and parents on the web cam too. We have both sent each other many pictures of each other and where and how we live, many cards through the mail and emails, also I call her every day and night. I know everything about her and she knows everything about me. If we don't meet in person does this mean she won't be issued a K-1 Fiancee visa? There's nothing more I would rather do than to go to the Philippines and hold her in my arms. With the US economy being as bad as it is at the moment, a job right now is very important to have. I'm afraid that if I try to take time off of work to visit her, I may not have a job when I return home. This means losing my house and all our plans together. They say there are some cases where you don't have to meet if it causes " Extreme Hardship" in doing so. Has anyone heard of this? Does anyone know what the law means as "Extreme Hardship"? Any information would be very helpful, thank you....

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    Every site I read it saids in order to obtain a K-1 Fiancee visa you must both meet in person. I understand if you have never seen her before, but with the internet we have been seeing each other for over a year on web cam, I also met her family and parents on the web cam too. We have both sent each other many pictures of each other and where and how we live, many cards through the mail and emails, also I call her every day and night. I know everything about her and she knows everything about me. If we don't meet in person does this mean she won't be issued a K-1 Fiancee visa? There's nothing more I would rather do than to go to the Philippines and hold her in my arms. With the US economy being as bad as it is at the moment, a job right now is very important to have. I'm afraid that if I try to take time off of work to visit her, I may not have a job when I return home. This means losing my house and all our plans together. They say there are some cases where you don't have to meet if it causes " Extreme Hardship" in doing so. Has anyone heard of this? Does anyone know what the law means as "Extreme Hardship"? Any information would be very helpful, thank you....

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    • #3
      The meeting requirement is very strict. There is only an exception where the religion requires it and it is extreme hardship. Also you would be insane to do a K-1 visa without having met the person. You only are allowed 2 K-1 visas in your life. If you can not afford a trip to the Phillippines, you can not afford marriage.

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      • #4
        Hi Mark - and welcome.

        I think you should meet your girl in person before filing the K-1 visa. USCIS has rules for a reason, and many of them are to protect the USC from fraud. Best to meet and figure out if the relationship is real and you guys are really compatible. Good luck.

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        • #5
          Dude, run the fck away. Those Philippine girls are nothing but trouble. She is going to use you for her papers and then divorce you and try to take everything you have. They all do the same thing. I've never known a single one that was honest.

          You watch and see. You will get royally screwed if you go through with it. They are lousy in the sack too. Lay there and make noises like a dying chicken or something.

          If you want a hot women get one from south america or maybe russia. They look better and are better in bed.

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          • #6
            <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by markg227:
            Every site I read it saids in order to obtain a K-1 Fiancee visa you must both meet in person. I understand if you have never seen her before, but with the internet we have been seeing each other for over a year on web cam, I also met her family and parents on the web cam too. We have both sent each other many pictures of each other and where and how we live, many cards through the mail and emails, also I call her every day and night. I know everything about her and she knows everything about me. If we don't meet in person does this mean she won't be issued a K-1 Fiancee visa? There's nothing more I would rather do than to go to the Philippines and hold her in my arms. With the US economy being as bad as it is at the moment, a job right now is very important to have. I'm afraid that if I try to take time off of work to visit her, I may not have a job when I return home. This means losing my house and all our plans together. They say there are some cases where you don't have to meet if it causes " Extreme Hardship" in doing so. Has anyone heard of this? Does anyone know what the law means as "Extreme Hardship"? Any information would be very helpful, thank you.... </div></BLOCKQUOTE>
            Extrmem hardship, under USCIS, is given the facts and circumstances, you are unable to meet your fiancee in person. An obvious example would be someone who is physcially bound to a wheelchair and the country does not have adequate facilities to take care of your needs.

            It may appear your situation, given the economy, may qualify for hardship. Make sure you have the facts and circumstances can be proven.
            "Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passion, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence." John Adams on Defense of the boston Massacre

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            • #7
              <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by jam123:
              Dude, run the fck away. Those Philippine girls are nothing but trouble. She is going to use you for her papers and then divorce you and try to take everything you have. They all do the same thing. I've never known a single one that was honest.

              You watch and see. You will get royally screwed if you go through with it. They are lousy in the sack too. Lay there and make noises like a dying chicken or something.

              If you want a hot women get one from south america or maybe russia. They look better and are better in bed. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

              I agree; you can trust Russian women. Please visit my web site below and take a tour to one of our wonderful cities; St. Petersburg, Odessa, Nikolaev, etc....

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              • #8
                <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by markg227:
                Every site I read it saids in order to obtain a K-1 Fiancee visa you must both meet in person. I understand if you have never seen her before, but with the internet we have been seeing each other for over a year on web cam, I also met her family and parents on the web cam too. We have both sent each other many pictures of each other and where and how we live, many cards through the mail and emails, also I call her every day and night. I know everything about her and she knows everything about me. If we don't meet in person does this mean she won't be issued a K-1 Fiancee visa? There's nothing more I would rather do than to go to the Philippines and hold her in my arms. With the US economy being as bad as it is at the moment, a job right now is very important to have. I'm afraid that if I try to take time off of work to visit her, I may not have a job when I return home. This means losing my house and all our plans together. They say there are some cases where you don't have to meet if it causes " Extreme Hardship" in doing so. Has anyone heard of this? Does anyone know what the law means as "Extreme Hardship"? Any information would be very helpful, thank you.... </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                If you do it? everything you have worked for, everything you believe in will disappear!!! you will then be in the twilight Zone of games and deceit!!! Enjoy your new life.
                PH. love = I Love the life you have, and what you have!!! Not you. Did she openly want to meet your parents? your friends? Or was it mostly hers????
                USC and Legal, Honest Immigrant Alike Must Fight Against Those That Deceive and Disrupt A Place Of Desirability! All Are Victims of Fraud, Both USC and Honest Immigrant Alike! The bad can and does make it more difficult for the good! Be careful who y

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                • #9
                  Why does everyone think that all Philippine women are nothing but liers and cheaters. I have read a lot of posts from US men who have married a philippine woman, they have nothing but the highest respect for them. They are simple people with a heart of gold, caring, loving, warm, and understanding. She has never asked me for anything, not one penny. She knows all my family as I do hers, she always writes my mother and sends her cards, always thanking her for excepting her for who she is. She excepts her poor way of life and ashamed to show me how she lives because shes afraid I will not love her. She even asked me if she could not come here to live if I would be willing to come there and live the simple poor live with her. She has so much beauty on the inside, something I have never seen in a American woman. Yes, material things are nice to have in life if you want to work till you drop dead in order to keep them. I would rather give up the rat race here in America and be rich in love with someone who truely loves me. You can keep your American western women who only love you for how much money you have and what you can give them. I'd rather live with less and have a loving and caring woman by my side who will love me weather I'm rich or poor. Life is to short, I'd rather be loved for who I am than for what I own. There are a lot of wonderful Philippine women out there who are only looking for a simple ,loving and caring man. That means more to me than anything I could ever own.

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                  • #10
                    Dude, you need to work on your spelling and grammar

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                    • #11
                      Scammers know how to pull the heart strings. Look at the scammers on this board. Of course they will send your mother cards; that's the way to get to you. She will even have your own mother turn against you; I promise you this. Her asking you to go there is a bluff. Why not call her on it and live there for 6 months? Sounds like you don't have much going on here anyway.

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                      • #12
                        <BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by markg227:
                        Why does everyone think that all Philippine women are nothing but liers and cheaters. I have read a lot of posts from US men who have married a philippine woman, they have nothing but the highest respect for them. They are simple people with a heart of gold, caring, loving, warm, and understanding. She has never asked me for anything, not one penny. She knows all my family as I do hers, she always writes my mother and sends her cards, always thanking her for excepting her for who she is. She excepts her poor way of life and ashamed to show me how she lives because shes afraid I will not love her. She even asked me if she could not come here to live if I would be willing to come there and live the simple poor live with her. She has so much beauty on the inside, something I have never seen in a American woman. Yes, material things are nice to have in life if you want to work till you drop dead in order to keep them. I would rather give up the rat race here in America and be rich in love with someone who truely loves me. You can keep your American western women who only love you for how much money you have and what you can give them. I'd rather live with less and have a loving and caring woman by my side who will love me weather I'm rich or poor. Life is to short, I'd rather be loved for who I am than for what I own. There are a lot of wonderful Philippine women out there who are only looking for a simple ,loving and caring man. That means more to me than anything I could ever own. </div></BLOCKQUOTE>

                        Ohhhh ok!! in that case, tell her you want to go to PH. and spend the rest of your life with her there! Be sincere about this! then see???
                        There are a few good Pinay among the corruption. So she is a YaYa. a slave???
                        The people here are only saying you should protect yourself first!!!! Do not rush to Marry without more Info!!!
                        You Like James bond Movies??? Those Hot Babes!! the ones that Love, and have a Blade in their Garter!!! SIGGYYYYYYY???? . she says, I am Sorry i had to Slit his Throat, I loved him. He was a Nice guy!!! Ohhh well!!!

                        And as far as things you have never seen In American women? Desperation creates desperate measures! Pinay are Taught How to succeed, deceive, especially Americans. she knows far more about you, than you do about her!!!!

                        Easy Prey = caring, Honest, Trusting, Loving American!!!! is what many have waited, and trained their whole life for!!!

                        Let us all celebrate, just like her family is doing. Finally one of our children has succeeded In finding a trusting, loving American. , Our Daughter Is the HERO. soon All of us will be in America, living the dream!!! LOL. of coarse you yourself will probably not be a part of the celebration. You are not supposed to Know!!!!!

                        Dear Lord where are my manners??? I did not welcome you to the board. Kamusta Ka markg227.
                        USC and Legal, Honest Immigrant Alike Must Fight Against Those That Deceive and Disrupt A Place Of Desirability! All Are Victims of Fraud, Both USC and Honest Immigrant Alike! The bad can and does make it more difficult for the good! Be careful who y

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                        • #13
                          You can only trust mail order brides.
                          See link below.

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                          • #14
                            Meet the chick. Just do it.

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                            • #15
                              wont Matter If he meets her or not! they play the game well!!! CRAZY PEOPLE EXTREME!!! Well Connected, The PH, Grapevine Is Real! Twilight Zone!!! Write message On Bubble Gum Wrapper, Give To Filipino. within 24 Hours It Will Be known 120000 miles Away, Half Way Around The World!!
                              Not A Joke!!! Many From PH. Here. Yet they will Never Disclose Anything! Some Not Connected, And Distance Selves, starting new life outside Of The fraud and Deceit. Others hide!
                              USC and Legal, Honest Immigrant Alike Must Fight Against Those That Deceive and Disrupt A Place Of Desirability! All Are Victims of Fraud, Both USC and Honest Immigrant Alike! The bad can and does make it more difficult for the good! Be careful who y

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