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    No big surprise!!!! suppose to file the I751
    at the end of August. Big problem (another one)
    no US citizen wants to write a letter regarding
    his bona fide marital regime! Another point,
    none of his "native speaking friends" want to
    write either, because they know he has been wrong in his actions!!! so, he says, "i can go home", (his country), get a job elsewhere, or do what I want."
    of course, if it is not filed, he will be
    called in to find out why it was not filed!
    I have tried to help him, I have done everything
    I can. If a guy, just doesn't realize the value
    of what he has. Then he loses it.
    The ball has been in his court, the proof
    is with him. He is truly amazing in a very
    sad way.

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    No big surprise!!!! suppose to file the I751
    at the end of August. Big problem (another one)
    no US citizen wants to write a letter regarding
    his bona fide marital regime! Another point,
    none of his "native speaking friends" want to
    write either, because they know he has been wrong in his actions!!! so, he says, "i can go home", (his country), get a job elsewhere, or do what I want."
    of course, if it is not filed, he will be
    called in to find out why it was not filed!
    I have tried to help him, I have done everything
    I can. If a guy, just doesn't realize the value
    of what he has. Then he loses it.
    The ball has been in his court, the proof
    is with him. He is truly amazing in a very
    sad way.

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    • #3
      Can you private message me... I don't know
      how to do it.

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      • #4
        Nireemdi

        How have you been my dear. Hope you have decided to stop being in that pain you have been living.

        Stop tormenting yourself. The letters not being able to be gotten are not a big deal at all. Many applications get submitted and approved without the letters. Do not think that this is going let you have a hold over him. Please give up on this idea. I am hoping that you are not considering holding the signing of the 751 over his head to get him to come back to you. This would not be cool and does not look good on you. If you are not going to sign it... then dont and file for the divorce. This is not a bartering tool for a relationship.


        He has many more youthful years ahead, while yours will start to wane away, the best ones having been wasted on this clown. Please let it go.

        Sammy has given you wonderful kind words, and a wonderful guide that you should follow. Obsession is an outdated fragance these days.. let it be the same for you.

        Take care 4now.

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        • #5
          No, I'm not holding anything over his head at all.
          As he couldn't get any letters (that says alot)
          I asked my son and housekeeper for 1. They didn't
          want to do either. But did for me. Sammy's
          thoughts are wonderful. He is 1 for the books.
          a classic h....a... I'd say. he doesn't even
          speak...and hasn't. I don't really care at all. In fact, he has to be on one **** of a guilt trip. He has lied so much to both sides of this life. Hiswork authorization is extended for 1 year, on the I-797-C. He believes there will be no interview to remove. He does not want to go
          to this, I don't blame him. Neither do I. It wouldn't be good at all. If we have to do the
          interview...and we no show. I'm sure we will
          receive something asking why? so...to me,
          he is a sorrowful person. I hope this haunts
          him for the rest of his life. He will deserve
          it. It would be irony if his friend met a US
          citizen and married him! This would be funny.
          So...the nothing is definitely nothing...on
          our parts. I have been getting my act together...I've grown up. Bout time, I am
          not a vendictative person at all, nor ugly....
          I could be. But i'm not. So, I'm at a good
          point within my self now. It has been hard,
          hurtful..and everything....but I have grown up.

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          • #6
            I've tried to sign up for private messaging..
            I can't seem to get it to work. I follow the
            directions...but it doesn't happen.

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            • #7
              Hi, nireehamdi!

              I noticed you've been asking about private messaging in your last postings.
              I felt compelled to let you know that this web site does not allow private messaging, that is, you cannot private message to anyone through this site.
              If you want to contact a person from this site, you could do that through e-mail.
              If you want to contact Sammy, I still have his e-mail address: sammy7257@msn.com
              Hope this e-mail address is still good and I that he won't mind I'm giving his e-mail address to you.
              He helped a with my immigration case and I believe he could help you,too.

              Good Luck!

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              • #8
                We are schedule for I751 interview. Since filing
                in september, he has not spoken to me. That's
                okey.....i've grown up and away and this is good.
                I will not be going to this interview. He has
                brought all on himself. He knows how to talk
                when doing petitions. 2 friends did letters 4
                him, (they did not want to) because I asked them. He isn't even appreciative of that....so..
                ...whatever he does...is his game... not mine...
                i'm not putting all that I have and risk it for
                someone....who is not worth it. Everything I
                have is on the line! I have tried, I have put
                up with all of his ugliness.....I'm sure
                his outside girlfriend has alot to do with it...
                that's okey too........I have rolled with everything, I have asked for respect and doing
                for our side....to help us....his "not caring"
                and that's okey too....he has become his own
                worst enemy....and dug his own grave.....me...
                I'm moving on...... I have put in all....and
                deserved more than nothing....he put in nothing
                and he is getting exactly that. I am ashamed of
                him.....he certainly had it all....... I have
                taken it all....

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                • #9
                  Nireehamdi,

                  I have read many of your posts and I am sorry that you had to go through this. I wish you well and hope you will find peace and happiness in whatever you do.

                  As far as your ex is concerned, you can't control what he does or what happens to him.

                  Please take care of yourself.

                  Best wishes,

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                  • #10
                    I am wrong again. i asked my housekeeper
                    and son to do a letter , they didn't want to..
                    said they would because I asked. "HE" alien
                    wrote the letter.... This is dumb I know...
                    THEY want to WITHDRAW THEIR LETTERS!!
                    CAN they do this? I will withdraw too..
                    rather than support all of this.

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                    • #11
                      Withdrawing notarised affirmations as to the legitimacy of the marriage is a bit tricky. Either they were being truthful when they wrote them or not. Upon what basis could they ask for them to be disposed of? As far as you asking them to fabricate, I'm not sure how that would look to USCIS.
                      The above is simply an opinion. Your mileage may vary. For immigration issues, please consult an immigration attorney.

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                      • #12
                        I don't know if i had them notarized or not...
                        i don't remember...i only asked them to write
                        the letter, they didn't want to and then
                        'he wrote and printed"....and I asked them to sign.
                        They didn't like it at all.

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                        • #13
                          They maybe could ask to withdraw because...they
                          didn't write...he did. they just signed...
                          they could ask..because I asked them to,
                          only did for me and signed because I asked...
                          I don't remember if notarized or not.

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                          • #14
                            i have all documented. Since he said, "Ive got
                            the card, I can do anything i want."...i never
                            thought about documentation...but he asked if
                            i were doing so. I said, no. (I wasn't)...
                            but i started, I'm glad.

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                            • #15
                              I'm simply telling this lady what I believe to be true. What don't you understand about my comment?

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