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Well After Thinking About It, And seeing You Are from Outside. I Wouldnt want To say How You can get Your Citizenship here.
Maybe too many know already/ part Of the Problem!
Sorry!
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Hi Dcwtech, Just curious. Are you a USC? Who are you addressing when you say they are from the 'outside'?
God Bless America and everyone else!
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Yes Maam? Sir? I Am a US 100% Born Here crazy american!
Outside Of USA
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quote: Originally posted by dcwtech:
Yes Maam? Sir? I Am a USC 100% Born Here crazy american! i was addressing Aroha
Aroha from Outside Of USA
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I'm a Maam. Did you graduate from high school? I ask this question because of your writing skills. Not trying to come down on you, but no one uses capitalization in the middle of a sentence unless it is appropriate. You probably need to forget you have a Shift key on your keyboard - lol!
God Bless America and everyone else!
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Theres a few on here i have the highest respect for. ProudUSC Maam.  60 words a minute with one finger, except the one that is trained on the shift key for every word!  Actually until i started posting here noone ever mentioned it to me before. now i see what all are saying, old habit, did some interesting projects in the past that required it. cant explain. ill try to rid this habit. The Good: My Schooling??? 12 years of high school 6 years technical training 3 master licenses 19 tech certifications 1 business license 1 photographic memory 20 Or So greetings/Phrases from About 18 different Languages. outstanding ###'s memory Extremely witty When Things Are well The not so good: Too Kind Too trusting Too Giving Too Compassionate Too Open minded Perfectionist Tries too Hard to Please Others typing self taught B- average in writing/spelling/english wasn't a priority in my industry Thanks ProudUSC Maam, I really like Most Of what You write. also Kolerkot And Mike. P.S. Even Though Maybe we Are very Different. |
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quote: Too Kind
Too trusting
Too Giving
Too Compassionate
Too Open minded
Perfectionist
Tries too Hard to Please Others
typing self taught
B- average in writing/spelling/english
wasn't a priority in my industry
None of these are bad qualities in my opinion. You got burnt, but you are still young enough to move forward, my friend. Time is on your side.
God Bless America and everyone else!
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 -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too Mr S.U. |
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quote: Originally posted by dcwtech:
Well After Thinking About It, And seeing You Are from Outside. I Wouldnt want To say How You can get Your Citizenship here.
Maybe too many know already/ part Of the Problem!
Sorry!
I do know, actually. When I do get Citizenship, it will be by virtue of a long and happy marriage to my wonderful American husband. By the time I'm able to apply in 3 years, we'll have been married more than 12 years. How will your wife be getting hers? |
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in that case congradulations. it appears doing things properly here are important to you. i really like seeing when this happens and there is such a long time of working together for a life together. nice! loyalty, devotion, working together for common goals. very, very, NICE! my best to you and yours. too many variables with mine and hers! not enough respect or regard for others. they wouldnt listen to me, the courts, they knew the rules better than i did. they didn't care! keep in mind my situation different. they didn't just break the rules when i met them, they broke the rules a long time ago. the system didn't catch it. or ignored it? not sure which? i guess in a few weeks when its finished ill be able to give better answers as to how the system reacts to it? and the outcome? which ill post here. |
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New Zealand, a beautiful country I would love to visit. Aroha, can you bring some sheep over please, really need some decent lamb here lol -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too Mr S.U. |
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read your story, similar to mine , only difference is I,m the Alien and went thru worse situation then you are.. still didn't lost my mind ans kept going ... thats not end of the world.. life goes on. I decided not get into relationship again.. hate what happend to me because never had any domestic violence or anything . people commentd about kid .. can you believe that school actually probihit father to see his son or daughter because mom didnot put father's name on the school record.? NO there is no court order, no visitation, no custody bettle but still.... School system, favours the mom then the fathers.. so be cool and go on.. and forget past as dream
Its a discussion, not a legal advise..
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quote: Originally posted by Sprint_girl07: New Zealand, a beautiful country I would love to visit. Aroha, can you bring some sheep over please, really need some decent lamb here lol
I'll see if I can sneak a couple of lambies in to my luggage for you |
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Mohan, I just caught the last part of this, but the school can not prohibit a biological parent from accessing the child's records. The bio parent's name needs to be on the birth certificate, the school has a copy of this and just needs to confirm it from the record. The mother's not putting the fathers name on the emergency card is insufficient, unless she has produced a court order prohibiting the father from contacting. Even if a father does not have physical custody, he still has legal custody (unless it was removed) and may access records of a child at school.
"Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen."
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dcwtech, was it your wife or did YOU get the DUI? It seems both of you may have a drinking problem from what you've written. I am also unclear on the deed on the house issue. I think sis has a good advice to work on getting your money out of the home equity. On the whole, it seems to me that the mother of your child may be an unstable person with a drinking problem. I don't think she is a good mother for your son. It would help to get him away from her and her family, out of the house because it is not a good environment for raising your son. Unless you drink yourself. ?
Try to relax and enjoy the crisis.
-- Ashleigh Brilliant
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quote: Originally posted by Aroha: quote: Originally posted by Sprint_girl07: New Zealand, a beautiful country I would love to visit. Aroha, can you bring some sheep over please, really need some decent lamb here lol
I'll see if I can sneak a couple of lambies in to my luggage for you
Ooh Thank you Aroha, I'll have my mint sauce ready lol I have family in NZ, Christurch,Otago?,Dunedin, Moteuka? and some other areas. They keep inviting me over, so I must someday. Are you a rubgy fan? I used to love watching the All Blacks do their Haka dance. Don't get to see good old rubgy anymore though. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too Mr S.U. |
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quote: Originally posted by mohan:
read your story, similar to mine , only difference is I,m the Alien and went thru worse situation then you are.. still didn't lost my mind ans kept going ... thats not end of the world.. life goes on.
I decided not get into relationship again.. hate what happend to me because never had any domestic violence or anything . people commentd about kid .. can you believe that school actually probihit father to see his son or daughter because mom didnot put father's name on the school record.? NO there is no court order, no visitation, no custody bettle but still.... School system, favours the mom then the fathers..
so be cool and go on.. and forget past as dream
to Mohan, Its good discussion advice thanks mohan, Im sure ill be fine, made it 3 years through an impossible situation. I do believe in miracles, i9m still here! |
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quote: Originally posted by iperson:
dcwtech,
was it your wife or did YOU get the DUI?
It seems both of you may have a drinking problem from what you've written.
I am also unclear on the deed on the house issue. I think sis has a good advice to work on getting your money out of the home equity.
On the whole, it seems to me that the mother of your child may be an unstable person with a drinking problem. I don't think she is a good mother for your son. It would help to get him away from her and her family, out of the house because it is not a good environment for raising your son.
Unless you drink yourself. ?
hello Iperson, actually those 2 beers i drank that night "Actually 1 and half" pored rest out. first in a long time! whole life never able to really drink alcohol Stomach doesn't Approve! And yes Mom/Wife Does Have drinking Problem And Rest Of Family Also. Her DUI Not me. I was Torn Between fighting For Sole Custody, And been To court Sooooo Many Times Already. i couldnt afford anymore."I Really Think Suicide Is Possible By Eating Dollar menu Double cheeseburgers for So Long"  . Not To Condemn And not racialy projected, however It Is normal Within The philippines to drink daily! #1 $$$ That country Is San Miguel beer And Tangeuray. 90% drinks alcohol There, ALOT! Alcoholism In The philippines is not considered a sickness or a fault of any kind. they almost advertise it as being a way of life and is ok. This particular family i experienced i feel are unstable by our standards here, but not there. Remember i still have filipino friends, however different. Note: I Got My wife to agree to shared physical custody and legal custody. I have my son, thur, fri, sat, every other sun. those are the most drinking days, Get it??? at least hes away from the majority of the partying that way. |
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Just my experience!!! Having Called The court Here my second home.
Virtually Impossible For a Man To Get Full Custody Here "Even If The Wifes lifestyle Unsuitable" Unless Hes $$$$$$$$. Or Is lucky Enough To Have Knowledgeable Free Help! My Experience.
Drinking And Driving is Ok In The Philippines. So is breaking The Law Of Any kind, If You Have Enough $$$$ To Pay. Personally I think Some parts Of the Philippines should be Limited from Visiting Here.
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quote: Originally posted by dcwtech:
Just my experience!!! Having Called The court Here my second home.
Virtually Impossible For a Man To Get Full Custody Here "Even If The Wifes lifestyle Unsuitable" Unless Hes $$$$$$$$. Or Is lucky Enough To Have Knowledgeable Free Help! My Experience.
Drinking And Driving is Ok In The Philippines. So is breaking The Law Of Any kind, If You Have Enough $$$$ To Pay. Personally I think Some parts Of the Philippines should be Limited from Visiting Here.
The friends I Have Here Also Condemn There! their Home Country. I Think It Takes at least 10 years here to adjust to our ways, unfortunately Can cause alot of dammage while they are learning/adjusting/changing their way of life. |
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