I guess you Didnt Read Everything? Is Alot I realize. I think I Mentioned That I Have friends From The Philippines! Also They Agree That Because It Is Sooo Very poor, And The System There crooked. Many People Lead Fraudulent Lives There! Ive Over 100 Aquantances from There! And friends Here. But They Have Been Here Long And realized They Didnt Have To fool And Manipulate To Succeed Here! GOOD ONES!!! The Oldies Here Will Tell You To Be Very Careful Because 80% Are Bad! This Stuff didnt Come From Me, I Got It From Them! I Just Happened To Experience It And Live It! Also Keep In Mind My Wife didnt cook, Didnt Know How To Do Laundry, I Cooked, cleaned, Picked Up after Everyone. Which I Didnt Mind. See This Family I Experienced Had YA YAS 5 To be exact. They Came From The Upper Side. Theres No Middle Class there! Wealth Or poor! Nothing In Between! The Rich treat The Poor Like Slaves There!!! I Saw It here Too With Them. Using Other Filipinos And Treating Them Like ****! See All the friends They Had When I Met Them They No Longer have! But I Myself Still Communicates With Them. They Saw What This Family Did to Me! They Disapproved! I Didnt Marry My Wife because Of looks, Or To Have someone Do The Cooking Etc. They Were Not capable Of Those Things. YAYASSS! Her looks average, Compared To Alot filipinas. I Married Her Because Of Her Singing, Her Pesonality, And What Appeared To Be Her Loyalty! Was An Act!!!

There Home CEBU. Visayan. Most Of My Friends, Aquantances etc. From Manilla! Tagalog. Yes There Is Very Big Difference Im Sorry!

Yes You Are a FILAM! So Is My Son And I Am Very Proud Of That!!! The Part I Guess You Missed? Is I New It was A Possability Her Mom Would Bring The Rest Of The Family, this Is Why I Got Them To Promise Me They Were Not Going To Do That! They Did! Many Times. You see They Didnt Just Bring Family To This Country The Wrong Way! They Where Turning The Home Into A Halfway House For illegals To Live Until They Found Someone To Marry Them!!! Which As Far As I Know Is BAD. BAD. BAD! Not To Mention dangerous Thing To Do Here. I Was To Have No Part Of That!!! Close Family Ties? Yes Most. They Are Considered rather Disfunctional. They Worked Together To Force Me From The Home. But They Even Use Each Other For Self Gain! Argue Between Themselves Constantly! The Mortgage I Paid Except For 1200 rent She Paid For The Downstairs. The Mortgage Was 3950. Also I asked For Their Help On Utilitys. They Wouldnt Help! Utilities = 950 Month! 1300 After 8 - 12 People There! Sorry But I Did Miss A Few Points Earlier. And I Understand Your Responses. Myself I Have Not One Ounce Of Fascist Or Predjudice In My Whole Body!!! My Friends: Filipinos Korean, Spanish, Indian, African American, Mongolia, Chinese, (Both Mandarin & Cantonese) 1 Japaneses Frind. Strangest Thing? Most Filipinos Ive Met Dont Really Like Spanish Speaking People. Or Koreans. I Havnt Been Able To Figure Out Why??? Most Filipinos Have More Spanish Blood Than Asian. A Mix japanese, chinese, Spanish, etc. Whats Up With That????

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Originally posted by speed_025:
I agree Sprint had a hard time understanding it.
But I can rely a few, Im halh filipino and spend half of my life in there.

First for most filipino the tradition is close family ties. You don't throw your relatives out
of your house specially when they don't have a place to stay. In his case I dunno he didn't mentioned it.

Second he said the mother in law help in cosigning to buy the house and ask to rent the upstair ( If I got that right)so basically the mother in law is sharing part of the mortgage?

Third he said his wife has got good credit , the mother exelent credit. How can an alient ( if his wife is) get good credit ( alien has no credit history for a start)If the mother has exelent credit ( how can she be a crook?)

Third he hit the wife by accident ( he said)
but his hands are hurting ( so how hard did he hit her?)

Fourth he keep saying my son, when this is both their son, seems to me he wanna claim his son for himself.

He said filipino community don't testify against
filipino community ( that's BS ). Why are you suing the whole filipino community by the way?

About his business ( ain't in divorce you have settlement which will be agreed by both parties?) He din't mentioned divorce either.

lastly he said his son is 4 years old they got married before having the baby....4 years married.

So tell me how can it be an immigration issue?

sorry but I think you need a therapist for a start.

Whoops, I Forgot Coffee. He Is From Ghana. Hes Not Affraid To Admit How Dangerous A Majority Is There And Scammers. Im Not Affraid To Say How Disappointed I Am With America. My Filipino Friends Will Also Say Be Careful Alot Of Bad There!

The Therapist Remark? What I said Upset You. Not Intentional!

Sorry About The Caps! Old Habbit. I guess I Like To Shift.

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Originally posted by Sprint_girl07:
I have a hard time reading any of this. Too much to read all close together and capital letters everywhere.

How do you manage to type using every word with a capital letter.

Now here you have something immigration related. If you have proof of that, you can actually call ICE and tell them about that issue, I bet they would want to take action here. But you have to have proof of that, and most likely will have to take the stand if it comes to legal proceedings.

That is illegal smuggling. Doesn't matter whether its familiy members or not.

Yes I Sure Did Scew Myself! Kick Myself Daily! However If You Cant Trust Your Own Family Who Can You Trust??? They Were Just Pretending To Be My family! Since I Handled Most Of The Paperwork And Bills Etc. I Got A Phone Call From The Mortgage Company One Day, My # Was On All The Paperwork. They Had Gotten Disconnected From Speaking With The Mother. They Were Trying To Get All The Equity Out Of The House And Run With It! I Told The Mortgage Company The Situation And I Immediately Filed A liz Pendance On The Property! Also Previously Concerning My Business, One Of The Judges Told My Wife Not To Incumber My Business In Any way! The Whole Family Blocked access Etc. Against Court Order. She Sent Text Message Stating She Didnt Care What The court says! That Dui? she Drove Outside Of The Perimeters Of That daily! I Proof Of All!! How Do You Save Your Sons Mom From Herself??? Without My Son losing mommy??? see My dilema?

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Originally posted by republicanwriter:
Well, I can understand and relate to the "drama" portion and the mother-in-law portion and the non stop cascade of relatives visiting.

My ex-husbands mother "rented" a portion of our home, but the "rent" was never paid.

Here is my advice, CHANGE YOUR NAME, RUN..
RUN FAST, RUN FAR BUT JUST RUN.

The child is a terrible tragedy, but the courts will grant her full custody and she and her family will make you miserable until he is i his ***** and can decide for himself.

I am not sure how you put down 40K and managed to NOT be on the property deed, but you are grown up, you had an attorney and you screwed yourself on that one. No one to blame but the guy in the mirror for that. Good thing she has excellent credit and she is on the note because she will keep paying it to prevent bad credit.

If you live in a community property state, regardless of the deed your wife will need a permission from you to sell the house.

If you want to keep the Drama going stick around otherwise ... relocate and get the hell out of town.

I Can Only Speak Of Here East Coast! The Credit Question And How??? believe It Or Not It Is Easier For People not Of The USA To Get Credit, Buy houses, Bank accounts, Etc. Than It Is For Americans! With Only One Year, Some even 6 months. You Can Get Bank accounts, credit cards, Buy A House. All without Citizenship Or Even Simple Green Card. Also sooo Many Here I Have seen Even Without A SS #. Disturbing To Me! Is Sad. Banks Dont Care. Just Show Your Passport! Sorry But It does Upset Me.

This Is The Last Post I Make On This Situation. I Would Like To Thank All For Reading And For The Input.

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Originally posted by dcwtech:
Yes You Are a FILAM! So Is My Son And I Am Very Proud Of That!!! The Part I Guess You Missed? Is I New It was A Possability Her Mom Would Bring The Rest Of The Family, this Is Why I Got Them To Promise Me They Were Not Going To Do That! They Did! Many Times. You see They Didnt Just Bring Family To This Country The Wrong Way! They Where Turning The Home Into A Halfway House For illegals To Live Until They Found Someone To Marry Them!!! Which As Far As I Know Is BAD. BAD. BAD! Not To Mention dangerous Thing To Do Here. I Was To Have No Part Of That!!! Close Family Ties? Yes Most. They Are Considered rather Disfunctional. They Worked Together To Force Me From The Home. But They Even Use Each Other For Self Gain! Argue Between Themselves Constantly! The Mortgage I Paid Except For 1200 rent She Paid For The Downstairs. The Mortgage Was 3950. Also I asked For Their Help On Utilitys. They Wouldnt Help! Utilities = 950 Month! 1300 After 8 - 12 People There! Sorry But I Did Miss A Few Points Earlier. And I Understand Your Responses. Myself I Have Not One Ounce Of Fascist Or Predjudice In My Whole Body!!! My Friends: Filipinos Korean, Spanish, Indian, African American, Mongolia, Chinese, (Both Mandarin & Cantonese) 1 Japaneses Frind. Strangest Thing? Most Filipinos Ive Met Dont Really Like Spanish Speaking People. Or Koreans. I Havnt Been Able To Figure Out Why??? Most Filipinos Have More Spanish Blood Than Asian. A Mix japanese, chinese, Spanish, etc. Whats Up With That????

quote:

Originally posted by speed_025:
I agree Sprint had a hard time understanding it.
But I can rely a few, Im halh filipino and spend half of my life in there.

First for most filipino the tradition is close family ties. You don't throw your relatives out
of your house specially when they don't have a place to stay. In his case I dunno he didn't mentioned it.

Second he said the mother in law help in cosigning to buy the house and ask to rent the upstair ( If I got that right)so basically the mother in law is sharing part of the mortgage?

Third he said his wife has got good credit , the mother exelent credit. How can an alient ( if his wife is) get good credit ( alien has no credit history for a start)If the mother has exelent credit ( how can she be a crook?)

Third he hit the wife by accident ( he said)
but his hands are hurting ( so how hard did he hit her?)

Fourth he keep saying my son, when this is both their son, seems to me he wanna claim his son for himself.

He said filipino community don't testify against
filipino community ( that's BS ). Why are you suing the whole filipino community by the way?

About his business ( ain't in divorce you have settlement which will be agreed by both parties?) He din't mentioned divorce either.

lastly he said his son is 4 years old they got married before having the baby....4 years married.

So tell me how can it be an immigration issue?

sorry but I think you need a therapist for a start.

Already Did Call Both Of Them. ICE And CIS. Is Why I Was felt Sooo Let Down! Remember In My First Post I Mentioned Calling Them? Also Withdrew My Sponsorship! No Response. Probably Because Of The Spouse Abuse Situation she Created? Instant Citizenship Here I Later Learned! MOTIVE???? I Guess It really Doesnt matter Now. In 2 weeks we Go For The Divorce Trial etc.

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Originally posted by Kollerkrot:
Now here you have something immigration related. If you have proof of that, you can actually call ICE and tell them about that issue, I bet they would want to take action here. But you have to have proof of that, and most likely will have to take the stand if it comes to legal proceedings.

That is illegal smuggling. Doesn't matter whether its familiy members or not.

The way I understand your story is your huge
problem is... your wife relatives.Like I say
the tradition is close family ties. As you notice Filipinos in most cases don't put their
old ones on a home.They take care of their families even friends, I don't see anything wrong with this. I know a lot of americans
who do the same and even europians.

Second, the reason why you married your wife..
is not even for " LOVE" you never mentioned it at all. The only dream that you had is having a single family home which your mother in law help in cosigning it since she has an excelent credit and she pays for her own rent.

You said 8 to 12 people did they tell you
if this are staying for good or just a visit?
A tourist visa is usually 3 to 6 months
a year if you file for an extension.How come if they are illegals you didn't tell ICE? You wanna do that to your wife ( right?)

You said you got 50/50 of everything plus
a joint custody of your son. So why do you think the government or the system was unfair to you?

You want revenge for such family matters
and you want the government to side with you
cuz you wanted more.

Best thing you do is go on with your divorce.
Get your share, and go on with your life.

As for your son, you have to respect his mother
if you truly care for your son.

Not That Anything Ever Be Done About It? I Dont Blame Our Immigration System, At Least Not Anymore After Ive Started researching, Learning, reading, Studying It Inside And Out. If You Look At The statistics Of The illegals Here Now Already And look At The situation In L.A. In The End It Doesnt Stay Fixed! Population, Politics, ethics, human Rights, Etc. etc. UnFixable!

quote:

Originally posted by Kollerkrot:
Now here you have something immigration related. If you have proof of that, you can actually call ICE and tell them about that issue, I bet they would want to take action here. But you have to have proof of that, and most likely will have to take the stand if it comes to legal proceedings.

That is illegal smuggling. Doesn't matter whether its familiy members or not.

quote:

Can Only Speak Of Here East Coast! The Credit Question And How??? believe It Or Not It Is Easier For People not Of The USA To Get Credit, Buy houses, Bank accounts, Etc. Than It Is For Americans! With Only One Year, Some even 6 months. You Can Get Bank accounts, credit cards, Buy A House. All without Citizenship Or Even Simple Green Card. Also sooo Many Here I Have seen Even Without A SS #. Disturbing To Me! Is Sad. Banks Dont Care. Just Show Your Passport! Sorry But It does Upset Me.

quote:

Can Only Speak Of Here East Coast! The Credit Question And How??? believe It Or Not It Is Easier For People not Of The USA To Get Credit, Buy houses, Bank accounts, Etc. Than It Is For Americans! With Only One Year, Some even 6 months. You Can Get Bank accounts, credit cards, Buy A House. All without Citizenship Or Even Simple Green Card. Also sooo Many Here I Have seen Even Without A SS #. Disturbing To Me! Is Sad. Banks Dont Care. Just Show Your Passport! Sorry But It does Upset Me.

.

How can one buy a house or get approve to have a credit card without an ss#? Oh boy this guy
lost it!

Im Sorry, I Guess You Misunderstand Or Maybe Im not Projecting The Situation Properly? I LOVED MY WIFE!!! I Waited 36 Years Before agreeing To Have A Child! I Picked Her! Is Why It Was So Upseting To see What They Were Doing. I Was Only Important Until They succeeded. This Situation Is Weird And Rare. Imagine Being Torn/Between 2 Things? My Son Keeping Mom And Family, Me Being Left To Barely Survive From Their actions. I Asked Her Mom Why she Lied To Me About Not Letting Family Friends Live With Us? At That Time 5 extra People In The House For Over 7 Months! She Said, "OHH! They Are Not Living Here, They Are Just Visiting" That Was 2 Years Ago! Most Are Still Living In The House! See What Im Trying To Say????

quote:

Originally posted by speed_025:
The way I understand your story is your huge
problem is... your wife relatives.Like I say
the tradition is close family ties. As you notice Filipinos in most cases don't put their
old ones on a home.They take care of their families even friends, I don't see anything wrong with this. I know a lot of americans
who do the same and even europians.

Second, the reason why you married your wife..
is not even for " LOVE" you never mentioned it at all. The only dream that you had is having a single family home which your mother in law help in cosigning it since she has an excelent credit and she pays for her own rent.

You said 8 to 12 people did they tell you
if this are staying for good or just a visit?
A tourist visa is usually 3 to 6 months
a year if you file for an extension.How come if they are illegals you didn't tell ICE? You wanna do that to your wife ( right?)

You said you got 50/50 of everything plus
a joint custody of your son. So why do you think the government or the system was unfair to you?

You want revenge for such family matters
and you want the government to side with you
cuz you wanted more.

Best thing you do is go on with your divorce.
Get your share, and go on with your life.

As for your son, you have to respect his mother
if you truly care for your son.

I Dont Want revenge! If You Can Imagine Being Forced Out Of Your Home/Also Were My Business Office/Shop Etc. was. I Lived In My Car For A Week. While People That Were Not Even Suppose To Be Here! Were Living In The Home I Put Everything I Had Into! Prevented Me From Working! I Didnt Mention Either That They are Very destructive To Property! No Respect For Anything! Yet I Force Myself To Get Along With Those That Intentionaly Tryed To Destroy Me! FOR MY SONS SAKE!

quote:

Originally posted by dcwtech:
I Can Only Speak Of Here East Coast! The Credit Question And How??? believe It Or Not It Is Easier For People not Of The USA To Get Credit, Buy houses, Bank accounts, Etc. Than It Is For Americans! With Only One Year, Some even 6 months. You Can Get Bank accounts, credit cards, Buy A House. All without Citizenship Or Even Simple Green Card. Also sooo Many Here I Have seen Even Without A SS #. Disturbing To Me! Is Sad. Banks Dont Care. Just Show Your Passport! Sorry But It does Upset Me.

This Is The Last Post I Make On This Situation. I Would Like To Thank All For Reading And For The Input.

quote:

Originally posted by dcwtech:
Yes You Are a FILAM! So Is My Son And I Am Very Proud Of That!!! The Part I Guess You Missed? Is I New It was A Possability Her Mom Would Bring The Rest Of The Family, this Is Why I Got Them To Promise Me They Were Not Going To Do That! They Did! Many Times. You see They Didnt Just Bring Family To This Country The Wrong Way! They Where Turning The Home Into A Halfway House For illegals To Live Until They Found Someone To Marry Them!!! Which As Far As I Know Is BAD. BAD. BAD! Not To Mention dangerous Thing To Do Here. I Was To Have No Part Of That!!! Close Family Ties? Yes Most. They Are Considered rather Disfunctional. They Worked Together To Force Me From The Home. But They Even Use Each Other For Self Gain! Argue Between Themselves Constantly! The Mortgage I Paid Except For 1200 rent She Paid For The Downstairs. The Mortgage Was 3950. Also I asked For Their Help On Utilitys. They Wouldnt Help! Utilities = 950 Month! 1300 After 8 - 12 People There! Sorry But I Did Miss A Few Points Earlier. And I Understand Your Responses. Myself I Have Not One Ounce Of Fascist Or Predjudice In My Whole Body!!! My Friends: Filipinos Korean, Spanish, Indian, African American, Mongolia, Chinese, (Both Mandarin & Cantonese) 1 Japaneses Frind. Strangest Thing? Most Filipinos Ive Met Dont Really Like Spanish Speaking People. Or Koreans. I Havnt Been Able To Figure Out Why??? Most Filipinos Have More Spanish Blood Than Asian. A Mix japanese, chinese, Spanish, etc. Whats Up With That????

quote:

Originally posted by speed_025:
I agree Sprint had a hard time understanding it.
But I can rely a few, Im halh filipino and spend half of my life in there.

First for most filipino the tradition is close family ties. You don't throw your relatives out
of your house specially when they don't have a place to stay. In his case I dunno he didn't mentioned it.

Second he said the mother in law help in cosigning to buy the house and ask to rent the upstair ( If I got that right)so basically the mother in law is sharing part of the mortgage?

Third he said his wife has got good credit , the mother exelent credit. How can an alient ( if his wife is) get good credit ( alien has no credit history for a start)If the mother has exelent credit ( how can she be a crook?)

Third he hit the wife by accident ( he said)
but his hands are hurting ( so how hard did he hit her?)

Fourth he keep saying my son, when this is both their son, seems to me he wanna claim his son for himself.

He said filipino community don't testify against
filipino community ( that's BS ). Why are you suing the whole filipino community by the way?

About his business ( ain't in divorce you have settlement which will be agreed by both parties?) He din't mentioned divorce either.

lastly he said his son is 4 years old they got married before having the baby....4 years married.

So tell me how can it be an immigration issue?

sorry but I think you need a therapist for a start.

are you a natural born american? or naturalized
from where ( is your native country?)

Seems to me you know less about the US.

No my Wife was 2 Years Younger Than Me!

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Originally posted by mysay:
he "forgot" to tell that this bad Filipino is good twenty years younger than he...

I Was Born Here! Lived Here My Whole Life! How About you Dear? I Notice You Have Some Good Pinay Qualitys. And The Protective Part Too. Kidding...

quote:

Originally posted by speed_025:
are you a natural born american? or naturalized
from where ( is your native country?)

Seems to me you know less about the US.