Thank you for all of you to respond my question(s).
now,my husband start saying "what (hardship)leeter gotta do with it to file I-601?"
and he doesn't seems like help me at all.
he start accusing me doesn't call lawyers or specialist regarding about my papers.
I came up with Idea which is I better file the paper no matter what.then,if INS need more evidence or more papers,then I better file it.
my husband said he's going to call the officer who sent me a letter.so,wish me luck!
and here is my e-mail address Mohan.
jedandkanae@netscape.com

thank you and god bless!

I am sorry, I was in training and they keep sending me to DC where I had no access to computer, neither I can bring my Lappy. I will write you an email.