By the way, I am not saying you have no right to post here, you have, but just wondered what your story is, as most people have one.
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too Mr S.U.
Jake01, unlike you, I am not here to make friends or share/discuss my personal business/life. That's why I have friends in the real world.
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Originally posted by Sprint_girl07: By the way, I am not saying you have no right to post here, you have, but just wondered what your story is, as most people have one.
No problem Sprint. I am here because there is two sides to every story. I post articles that represent the truth and reality that American citizens are suffering as a result of the illegal alien invasion and the failure of our government to secure our borders and the truth with regards to the negative effects and consequences that illegal immigration has on our citizens and our country.
12 Americans per day are murdered by an illegal alien.
Originally posted by Beverly: Jake01, unlike you, I am not here to make friends or share/discuss my personal business/life. That's why I have friends in the real world.
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I am sorry Beverly, I didn't mean to pry into your personal life, I was just thinking that maybe I should do a background check on my husband.
Originally posted by Beverly: Jake01, unlike you, I am not here to make friends or share/discuss my personal business/life. That's why I have friends in the real world.
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I am sorry Beverly, I didn't mean to pry into your personal life, I was just thinking that maybe I should do a background check on my husband.
Apology accepted. Unfortunately, since you are already married you have put the cart before the horse. That being said, since you are from another country, it can't hurt to know whether or not he has a violent past, served jail time, ever filed for bankruptcy, has been married before or killed his previous wife and kids . . (just kidding about the the last part) .
Seriously though, when you get married whatever you or your mate does affects both of your lives. His actions either becomes your asset or liability (and vice versa) as exhibited by the horror stories all over this thread. What if he's the product of a long line of of serial killers and you decide to have children but don't find out until AFTER you have one of his psychotic kids?
Marriage is a serious commitment and its what you don't know that can hurt you.
blaming DHS for somebody 'falling in love' (likely out of desperation) is silly...what if the DHS officials had denied the I 130? Would you (the OP) whined loudly to your congressman about our government violating your 'rights?' (while you can marry anyone you want, that doesn't give them nor you the right to a green card...only you have the right (privilege) to file for a green card...big difference... this case is just another reminder that when marrying foreign dudes especially from developing countries or where arabic is the main language, well, expect problems down the road.
Originally posted by Someone12: blaming DHS for somebody 'falling in love' (likely out of desperation) is silly...what if the DHS officials had denied the I 130? Would you (the OP) whined loudly to your congressman about our government violating your 'rights?' (while you can marry anyone you want, that doesn't give them nor you the right to a green card...only you have the right (privilege) to file for a green card...big difference... this case is just another reminder that when marrying foreign dudes especially from developing countries or where arabic is the main language, well, expect problems down the road.
Excellent points. The more I read, the more I realize that America is in grave danger. There are millions of illegal aliens who are cultural criminals that have crossed our borders, have no clue how to behave in a civilized society, and personal responsibility is not a part of their vocabulary.
Originally posted by NeedHelpFast: No disrespect intended, but how is choosing a fraudulent mate Homeland Security's fault?
It is DHS's fault when you get duped by a foreigner and have signed a legal binding agreement, which by the way USCIS made you sign otherwise your significant other will
Originally posted by HelpVictim: It is DHS's fault when you get duped by a foreigner and have signed a legal binding agreement, which by the way USCIS made you sign otherwise your significant other will
Helpvictim, No one forced you to sign. No Men in Black suits came to your house and forced you to sign. if you did not sign nor filed the paperwork, then her legal status, or more a lack thereof, will be your fault. That is what responsibility is for. You want all the benefits and none of the consequences when it does not go your way.
At best, you will spend $5k and all for nothing.
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"Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passion, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence." John Adams on Defense of the boston Massacre
exactly.....this is a message to all those desperate women who are considering marrying some illegal alien or some douchebag from a country filled with sand....you will get scammed
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too Mr S.U.
please re-read my posting,,,"filled with sand", not "has sand"...sounds like you might be just the village idiot to run out and marry some clown from the sandbox...well, if you do, please don't post your bleatings here, complaining that he treats you like last week's cat box droppings....muslim men will treat American women like rejected government mules....that's all they know how to do. I don't say this to belittle American women....I say this as a warning to any of you contemplating falling 'in love' with some internet beau or (even worse) some illegal alien from one of the sandy countries....do you really want to be a part of his grand plan to harm the US? I wouldn't. I will gladly send you a new set of 'D' cells to power your, er, vibrating friend, in lieu of bringing some unknown clown to the US....it's not worth it. Please, find, at the very least, an illegal from some other culture....I don't want to see any of you treated like $hit and then used as a means for some other end that could cause harm to the US of A.
Originally posted by SonofMichael: I dated the criminal I was involved with for one year before the actual crime (the "marriage"). I slowly began to realize it on that day. But as everyone knows, i am a trusting, kind and loving person. Only after she confirmed it after 2 years did I divorce her. I think its possible for a couple to meet, even for an instant, and be in love for a lifetime. And I think its possible to think you know someone for years and still be conned. It is difficult to know what is in someone's heart. And people will marry anyone and do anything to get a green card. They will marry a mental retard, a black, a jew, an ex-convict, a serial rapist, a Democrat, a child molestor, etc.... They don't care.
SOM, you have gobsmacked me, you are human after all and you do have a heart. now, if you just delete the last sentence you wrote, I think more people will be just as Gobsmacked as me.
I must admit, I was a bit surprised too, pleasantly surprised to hera SOM speak this way. Yup, life doesn't offer any guarantees (except for taxes and death as the cliche goes), we all just have to make the best of what we have. For those who have the misfortune of marrying people who are there just for the GC, it's best to learn everything from it so as to not repeat it and move on.
Do all the good you can, in all the ways you can, as long as ever you can.
Originally posted by Sprint_girl07: Thank you Mrs B, unfortunately nearly 1 yr down the line, I am still going through the divorce, and a very difficult one at that. There are days I do feel like giving in to him, but I am determined not to, many women do, but I don't want to be one of those women.
SOM...there are a lot of words that you wrote there that are very true, and I do believe came from your heart.
Hi SprintGirl,
Do hang in there... I have actually told my friend who had the abusive husband to go here to this forum and look for you. I have been here only last month and so far, I think you're the only one I know who has a somewhat similar story as hers who is still active in this forum.
I wish you all the best!
Do all the good you can, in all the ways you can, as long as ever you can.
Originally posted by NeedHelpFast: No disrespect intended, but how is choosing a fraudulent mate Homeland Security's fault?
It is DHS's fault when you get duped by a foreigner and have signed a legal binding agreement, which by the way USCIS made you sign otherwise your significant other will
I'm sorry, I don't mean to be argumentative, but you said it is DHS's fault when you get duped by a foreigner? I still don't understand how DHS has anything to do with potential mate selection.
The problem is not with DHS, it is with VAWA - Violence Against Women's Act. The act was developed with a political agenda; to help women launch assaults against men. The claim was that women were subjected to more violence than men which is not the case at all. 95%+ of victims of violence are men and men are 5X more likely to be a victim of a woman than vice versa. One pf the provisions of VAWA conferred automatic status to a foreigner who claimed she was a victim of violence by her husband. This defies logic and common sense. If a woman was a victim of violence, why should she be "rewarded" with a green card? An American woman does not receive any reward if her spouse beats her up. And of course, VAWA simply openned the door to massive fraud. This was followed up by IMBRA which bans men from communicating with foreign women and enslaves them to American feminists. VAWA and IMBRA are the problem and both must be repealed.
Impeach Obama ! ............................... SOM - THE VOICE OF REASON
Originally posted by NeedHelpFast: No disrespect intended, but how is choosing a fraudulent mate Homeland Security's fault?
The US Govt requires you to sign I-864 to support someone you genuinely thought loves you and not your passport. When the fraud is discovered and you go to USCIS with the evidence, a hard evidence like taped confessions, USCIS says too bad it happened please move on with your life or take a number and stand in line. Once you are in the boat you will feel the pain.
Originally posted by Lerka Я: HelpVictim is a phuking pedo file !!!
It appears you are one of them Russian women who have gained tremendous expertise in this area of defrauding USC. Please I am trying hard to gather people like me who are defrauded and no one will listen to it. I am fighting for my right and seeking justice. In this emotional time I have learned that Govt will not listen to one but only to several.
Well I certainly don't think VAWA should be repealed due to the potential abuse of it, but there does need to be more of an investigative process in place to protect both sides. Violence against immigrants (primarily women) is unfortunately more common than many realize, and a protective out does need to remain in place to safeguard the unsuspecting, but reform is order to prevent against it's frequent misuse. We can't throw the baby out with the bathwater here.
Originally posted by HelpVictim: The US Govt requires you to sign I-864 to support someone you genuinely thought loves you and not your passport. When the fraud is discovered and you go to USCIS with the evidence, a hard evidence like taped confessions, USCIS says too bad it happened please move on with your life or take a number and stand in line. Once you are in the boat you will feel the pain.
The US gov't is determining to see if you can support the immigrant spouse. What the US government does not want is for the immigrant to turn tricks on the street, go on welfare because the USC spouse treats the spouse like trash, and so forth. Again, your case is not fraudulent based on the postings you have provided. And just because the marriage did not work out does not make it fraudulent either. You really need some counseling.
"Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passion, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence." John Adams on Defense of the boston Massacre
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