Hi,Finally, I went to see this lawyer and he said there's nothing to worry about.
I also call INS officer who sent me a letter and she gave me extra time to put everything together.(by the way,she's very nice...I can't believe that she works for immigration!)
She told me I still have to file I-601 w/AOS because of my criminal conviction.but now everything going to be wrap up!It was very long 5yrs since I got into deportation proceeding.
but now, finally I can see some hope to be here in this country with my family!!
wish me luck!

good luck, let me know if you still need help.