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Originally posted by concerned88:Should she divorce him? If she remarries again to a US citizen would she be able to obtain a green card?

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Originally posted by SonofMichael:

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Originally posted by concerned88:Should she divorce him? If she remarries again to a US citizen would she be able to obtain a green card?

TRUE LOVE !!!

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Originally posted by Mrs. Mani:
I would still not tell your friend to get married to a USC just to get benefits b/c her case will get more scrutiny than others.

How long has she been here?

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Originally posted by concerned88:

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Originally posted by Mrs. Mani:
I would still not tell your friend to get married to a USC just to get benefits b/c her case will get more scrutiny than others.

How long has she been here?

She has been here 2 years.

What if she just leave and not remarried til she find someone else in the future.
Becasue her husband did her bad.. he lied , he emotionally abuses her, cheats etc
Howevevr he has not been physical abusive. She love him and wanted it to work but she was thining of leaving him long b4 the removal proceedings. He is not the man he say he is when she marry him.

By the way would she quailfy to apply for VAWA? Bearing in mind that he did not physically abuse her, just the other things mentioned.

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Originally posted by Mrs. Mani:
If she leaves, she's subject to a 10 year bar. She may be eligible for VAWA but because she does not have status, she should definitely not call USCIS to ask them about it or file any forms. She should see an immigration attorney familiar with VAWA or go to a community outreach program or shelter for abused women to see if she can get help.

The fact that her husband held out he was a citizen when he wasn't in order to string his wife along and the fact htat he emotionally abused her are grounds for a VAWA.

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Originally posted by Someone12:
more like "waaa waaa...gimme a visa....waaa waaa"....NO MORE VISA CHEATS IN AMERICA!

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Originally posted by concerned88:
you don't understand the whole thing. He lied to her that he was a citizen and convince her to overstay her visa because he could file for her. She found out later after marriage and a child that he wasn't and could not file for her. He tries to get the citizenship before she found out but he was denied and now placed in removal proceeding. I know she loves him but she is thinking of the 2 small children and herself too. She doesn't want to be in removal too. thats why she wanted to get out of the marriage b4 they zero in on her. Also they are both from different countries ... so being both deported will not make them be together either

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Originally posted by davdah:
Go ahead and try vawa, you'll get deported that much quicker. The guy has to be a legal resident at minimum for that to work. Plus it has to be proven. It appears he isn't legal, doubtful provable given the underlying interest given.

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Originally posted by concerned88:
you don't understand the whole thing. He lied to her that he was a citizen and convince her to overstay her visa because he could file for her. She found out later after marriage and a child that he wasn't and could not file for her. He tries to get the citizenship before she found out but he was denied and now placed in removal proceeding. I know she loves him but she is thinking of the 2 small children and herself too. She doesn't want to be in removal too. thats why she wanted to get out of the marriage b4 they zero in on her. Also they are both from different countries ... so being both deported will not make them be together either

Too many conclusions being jumped to here.
Sorry, but it sounds like your friend married mostly for the greencard legality issue. Certainly it does not sound like a marriage as she is not standing behind him to continue to be a wife just because he cannot make her legal And now is quickly looking for the "NEXT" that can make her legal.

I feel bad for the guy that wanted her so much that he had to lie to get her to marry him because he knew that she would not marry him if he could not get her papers. And the issue about living in 2 differnet countries is WHAT?

He can petition for her from his country to come live with her there. Oh..I forgot, she is not interested in the husband... it is the usa that she is worried about to stay here. Poor guy.

Now what you need to do concerned88 is find out exactly what the fraud was that caused his citizenship to be denied and greencard to be revoked. It could be something fairly simple like he previ0usly had his conditions removed from a joint 751 petition when he had already been divorced or seperated. This type of thing will surface and come to light when n-400 is applied for. He may just have to file a 751 waiver (if that is the case) and get an approved permanent resident card. then he can apply for the n-400 and possibly get his citizenship to be able to make her legal.

Find the facts and a possible solution that would sovle immigration and marriage problem at same time.

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Originally posted by concerned88:

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Originally posted by concerned88:
you don't understand the whole thing. He lied to her that he was a citizen and convince her to overstay her visa because he could file for her. She found out later after marriage and a child that he wasn't and could not file for her. He tries to get the citizenship before she found out but he was denied and now placed in removal proceeding. I know she loves him but she is thinking of the 2 small children and herself too. She doesn't want to be in removal too. thats why she wanted to get out of the marriage b4 they zero in on her. Also they are both from different countries ... so being both deported will not make them be together either

Too many conclusions being jumped to here.
Sorry, but it sounds like your friend married mostly for the greencard legality issue. Certainly it does not sound like a marriage as she is not standing behind him to continue to be a wife just because he cannot make her legal And now is quickly looking for the "NEXT" that can make her legal.

I feel bad for the guy that wanted her so much that he had to lie to get her to marry him because he knew that she would not marry him if he could not get her papers. And the issue about living in 2 differnet countries is WHAT?

He can petition for her from his country to come live with her there. Oh..I forgot, she is not interested in the husband... it is the usa that she is worried about to stay here. Poor guy.

Now what you need to do concerned88 is find out exactly what the fraud was that caused his citizenship to be denied and greencard to be revoked. It could be something fairly simple like he previ0usly had his conditions removed from a joint 751 petition when he had already been divorced or seperated. This type of thing will surface and come to light when n-400 is applied for. He may just have to file a 751 waiver (if that is the case) and get an approved permanent resident card. then he can apply for the n-400 and possibly get his citizenship to be able to make her legal.

Find the facts and a possible solution that would sovle immigration and marriage problem at same time.

Thanks for your comment . BUt she is not a green card hungry person. They were actually engaged while she was in her country and when she came to visit him she got pregnant and he told her to stay and get married. She got married and decided to go back home, but he keep conccincing her that he was a citizen and she didnt have to go home.. so she agreed to stay. Why are u sorry for him ? HE lied!! she was willing to go home after they were married til something can happen for them. Now he puts her in a difficult position.

Different country matters.. Both countries ar at war presently .. not a place to raise family especially her husband country. She is thinking about better life for her kids too who are US citizens.

Thanks for the latter solution. He really needs a waiver. I think they belieeve he lied about his marital status to gain benefits ( his first marriage). He got the green card under unmarried son instead of married from his parents who are US citizen. I think thats the whole issue that came up when he apply for his citz.

I hope he can get a waiver because he is the sole breadwinner for his family (wife and kids). But what he did to his wife was inconsiderate.