This is a good story so read through the entire thing. I am not a lawyer so your lawyer should guide you on the best way to proceed. I would imagine that you should include the damages in with your divorce/annullment. Now what I did was totally unprecdented. Every lawyer I spoke to was surprised. I divorced her first and THEN I filed 4 small claims lawsuits against her for $12,000. I won all by default. When I froze all her funds in her bank, she issued a show cause order. This forced her out of hiding.So for the first time since she snuck out, I confronted her in court. I really wasn't sure if this was going to work. I should have included it in the divorce. Right after getting the green card and right before she left, she claimed her mother needed $3000 for an operation to save her life. So I presented my case and the reason why I didn't do it in the divorce was because she led me to believe that she left the country or was going to. And I presented a letter she wrote trying to blackmail me into changing the divorce a month after it was final. Finally, I asked her, before the court, why she left and she said it was because I wouldn't give her a car. So I said "I saved your mothers life and you accusd me of abuse because I wouldn't buy you a car ?" So we walked out and she handed me the engagement ring as if to stop me. 2 weeks later, the judge wrote the she committed an immigration fraud and defrauded me ! That was the happiest moment in my life I think. I felt vindicated. Finally, her lawyer offered me $6000 to settle and I agreed. It was never about money for me. By the way, INS got a copy of that judgement>

Hahahah....Not it was not, but is ok if you take it that way.

J'aime vos plaisanteries. HAH See ya'

Waoo Michael:

She was something. Anyway is definitively a good thing all that is over. And of course you should be happy for getting your money back. Not only as you stated for the money but at least you showed her that she can't be playing people as fools.
In the way you explained that situation makes it very clear it was a fraud.

Everybody needs to cool down....

Eliminate and Abolish Redundancy

DARE to Keep Cops Off Donuts (Donut Abuse & Rotundity Elimination)

Help Stamp Out Intolerance!

My Kid Beat Up Your Honor Student

If You Don't Like The Way I Drive, Stay Off The Sidewalk!

I'm Pro-Lifejacket And I Boat!

Archaeologists Will Date Any Old Thing

Visualize Whirled Peas

I still miss my ex, but my aim is improving.

RIGHT AND WRONG :-

In high-school, Len and Dwaine were discussing a girl from their
school who they both had befriended. Her family had recently relocated
to the area from a farm way out in the sticks.

They both agreed that they never met a sweeter girl before,
and agreed that she was too naive and trusting.

Dwaine said, "Listen Len, for her own good, and as her friends,
we've got to teach her quickly what's right & what's wrong."

Len replied, "Agreed! You teach her what's right, I'll teach
her what is wrong."


Clarification : - these were just joke to make you guys feel little better after all these arguements....!Have a good night ! and please stop fighting ... one has to put end to this...Pasha

Pasha:

What happen? That part is all over. Didn't you see?
Now is all about peace. Didn't you see 4now comments and my replies?
Let's don't talk about it any more.
Have a good one!!!

Thanks i am happy for all of you !!!

Yoly:

Once again...what ahppened to you. Here is one of your first posts ont his board "ok....Stop fighting. I think the majority of people that comes to this site is because is looking for answers. Vivek said s/he is not the same person.
Please lets keep it simple. Just talking about the issues with BCIS's applications. The rest if someone is *** or not that is a personal thing unless it have something to do with approval or not from immigration because of it. I don't think this is the case.
PEACE EVERYBODY"

AND THEN FROM THAT POINT ONWARDS, your own words digress to pure drivel and insults


And by the way, I refused to spend the rest of my days trying to discuss with you I will do the same as your hubby did.......just ran away.

We finally did it?? Please let us know?

Thanks God, Sammy do still around he just decided to ignore non-sense comments or posts, I believe Pasha is trying to do the same and many other members"

Anyway, what I am wondering is are you sure about your own marriage, to be able to say with clear confidence that you would not be as upset as I am in say a year or so?

Well, if you are perhaps you should re-read what you wrote, yourself...""They may ask all questions they want, and that's ok with us because we have a legitimate marriage, we love each other so far"

Yeah Pasha:

No problem. Everything is back to normal now.

ne vous inquiétez pas soyez heureux.

4Now

I'm responsible for two people but I haven't received any concrete answers from you to help my situation improve except for "move on because you had been hit by a Smooth Criminal".

I would like nothing more than to help my wife stay here, but if I cannot contact her then I'm left with no other option but to protect myself from being sued by the BCIS.

My wife decided to make her own way through life. I did not decide this for her. As far as I was was concerned the married was very strong up until she met someone else. That is when the confusion set in because now I have someone I love against me.

I've been asking questions to for over 2 months to gain a better insight into immigration but everything pointed to if it wasn't going to be my current wife then start making sure I could take care of my future family. I'm sure you can understand. I hope. It wasn't an easy decision to make.

Mike:

How are you? You need make no justification for what you have or have not done. It is your decision only, and only you know what is best. I can and will give you my full support, because I know in my heart how difficult it is not to just to let go of a life you planned, but also to do the right thing.

I am pretty sure, there are few on this board who have been in a situation like yours, and therefore cannot begin to understand the conflict of feelings and the unending doubt as to whether you should or should not be feeling the way that you do.

I say, "hats off to you". You are a strong believer in the institution of marriage,a nd all that goes along with it, but at the same time, you do not lose sight of the fact that sometimes people we love make wrong choices, and it is necessary for them to take responsibility for them and not expect us to shoulder it alone. I know from my own experience that I have fought a battle within my heart from the day I first learned the fate of my marriage, that there would dawn a day when I may have to do something which was so against to my love for my husband, that just to contemplate it brought tears to my eyes. After all, how could I conscion making a move which could hurt my beloved so in the future. Well time and contemplation have permitted me to understand that sometimes "tough love" is in order.

No matter what the conseuqences of your contact with BCIS may be, please keep in mind that it was your wife's decision to do what she did to you. If no forethought to the potential outcome was made on the part of your wife, then she was foolish. You have every right to remove yourself from any potential ramification of your wife's abuse of the immigratoin laws, and your heart deserves to be at peace with availing yourself of the right.

Rest assured, that indeed it it is meant to be that your spouse is asked to leave this country, she will have ample opportunity to convince the immigration judge of the reasons why she should be permitted to stay.

Swissnut,
do whatever makes you happy and brings satisfaction. I wish you all the best.

WHATS GOING ON HERE !!????????????

Wow, this thread is two years old!

And it showed up on top ; maybe it is looping

What is looping? It showed up on top because you pulled it up and posted!

No it was on top of the pile and I replied; it was on top before I replied

I have no idea why this thread was dug up. Perhaps it's a case of 'schadenfreude', eh?

Hm, was Michael trying to get your attention, Swissnut? Or, did someone else post to bring up the thread and then deleted?

Good old days ...reminds me of lot of people and friends used to be on this website and talk... well its all changed now...good to see swiss... I hope u all are doing great...have a great new year...Pasha

I MISS SWISSNUT !
I read her blog
shes a little nutty
BUT I LOVE HER !