Thank you for the kind words Hudson. I am going with Ren's advise and will try everything I can to try and get my husband in for a short visit to see his parents, which he has not seen in 8 years. Our family means everything to us, near or far they are still in our hearts and minds!

try weeping or whining.
badda bing!

Try putting a bullet in your head - you're obviously a redneck and should own a gun.