SON OF VILLAGE IDIOT, you doubled your salary to what... $10,000 a year!! Ha,ha... I am certain she is MUCH happy with a REAL MAN instead of your pathetic excuse of a man!! I wish her the best, she is BRILLIANT and I am so happy for her!! She's rid of you, STUPID!!!

Oh SOM...now I am sweety? I am honoured! lol

You are making yourself look like an idiot.
I had a civil marriage in a church. I have a marriage certificate. I came over here as his WIFE.
There is no grounds for common law marriage here.
Marriage certificate = legal

My STBX is just stating that we are not married, because he hopes that the courts here might not know whether a marriage in UK is legal or not.
I would not been able to come here on a K3 visa if I was not legally married.

So stop pretending you know things, just because you defrauded a poor immigrant woman

SON OF VILLAGE IDIOT, you say the S** was good, I am 100% positive she was laughing through every moment of it!! And totally thinking of her boyfriend! You were OBVIOUSLY LOUSY IN BED, STUPID!! Ha,ha... I cannot stop laughing at all of this... it's the best!! Keep it coming!! P L E A S E!!!!

PLEASE SEND MORE, SON OF STUPID! You have me laughing so hard!!! Ha,ha...

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Originally posted by Sprint_girl07:
Oh SOM...now I am sweety? I am honoured! lol

You are making yourself look like an idiot.
I had a civil marriage in a church. I have a marriage certificate. I came over here as his WIFE.
There is no grounds for common law marriage here.
Marriage certificate = legal

My STBX is just stating that we are not married, because he hopes that the courts here might not know whether a marriage in UK is legal or not.
I would not been able to come here on a K3 visa if I was not legally married.

So stop pretending you know things, just because you defrauded a poor immigrant woman

Try britishexpats.com

I take it you have a 10 year GC?

You can obtain support through the Affadavit, it has been done, but I believe you are required to show mitigation, something for your Lawyer.

PS

Health care in the UK is based on residency, if you are resident you get it. Paid for by taxation, just as most health care in the US is.

Housing is another and quite complicated issue.

Theone thank you!

Regarding healthcare though, US residents/citizens cannot all get free healthcare like the UK.
Over here you need health insurance, otherwise you are stuck. I know some people can get something free here if they are on benefits or something , but anyone can get free healthcare in UK, whether working or not.
Of course all paid through taxes.

I would complain about the healthcare system when I lived in UK, but no more since living here. I'd rather know that if something life threatening happened to me or needed surgery, I know that I would not have to worry whether I could afford the treatment or not.
I feel for so many people here who are suffering because they cannot afford healtcare and can't afford their treatment.

Sorry to your question, yes I do have a 10yr GC

he signed the 864. HE HAS to keep u financially even after the divorce - ITS LAW!!! You also have to go back to court every year to get it assessed again. U cant become a burden to the US tax payers.. NO they dont get it from him. You take him to court and get it !!!!!! I hope u kept copies of the paperwork

Go to Britishexpats.com - Its the brit site and they have a couple of lawyers in there that can help u. There is a thread going on at the mooment in family based visas, its one of the most recent ones subscribed to daily about this topic where the immigration lawyer has posted some comments just on this subject.

u will be ok, pm me if u want !

Thank you ntfd3!

Finally someone has heard about it! Thank you I will go and have a look.

Hi sprint girl

How did this post turn into what it has. Posters please get back to the issue at hand.

thank you for your answers,
yes, I am glad you found the links

One more question. Is your state a state that has spousal support? If so. apply for support , and use the 864 as justification.

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Originally posted by ntfd3:
he signed the 864. HE HAS to keep u financially even after the divorce - ITS LAW!!! You also have to go back to court every year to get it assessed again. U cant become a burden to the US tax payers.. NO they dont get it from him. You take him to court and get it !!!!!! I hope u kept copies of the paperwork

Do you know how it works if the USC who sponsored + signed the aff. of support (864), and alien divorce (alien claiming 'extreme cruelty') THEN the alien gets married again ? Would the NEW spouse have to then sponsor the alien ? It seems that's how it should work, but I'm uncertain.

Thanks
Got_Faith

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Originally posted by Got_Faith:

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Originally posted by ntfd3:
he signed the 864. HE HAS to keep u financially even after the divorce - ITS LAW!!! You also have to go back to court every year to get it assessed again. U cant become a burden to the US tax payers.. NO they dont get it from him. You take him to court and get it !!!!!! I hope u kept copies of the paperwork

Do you know how it works if the USC who sponsored + signed the aff. of support (864), and alien divorce (alien claiming 'extreme cruelty') THEN the alien gets married again ? Would the NEW spouse have to then sponsor the alien ? It seems that's how it should work, but I'm uncertain.

Thanks
Got_Faith

There are 5 get out of jail cards if you are on the hook as a Sponsor, re-marriage is not one of them.

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Originally posted by Sprint_girl07:
Theone thank you!

Regarding healthcare though, US residents/citizens cannot all get free healthcare like the UK.
Over here you need health insurance, otherwise you are stuck. I know some people can get something free here if they are on benefits or something , but anyone can get free healthcare in UK, whether working or not.
Of course all paid through taxes.

I would complain about the healthcare system when I lived in UK, but no more since living here. I'd rather know that if something life threatening happened to me or needed surgery, I know that I would not have to worry whether I could afford the treatment or not.
I feel for so many people here who are suffering because they cannot afford healtcare and can't afford their treatment.

US Gov actually pays more per person for health care than the UK Gov does. Weird but true.

The difference in the US is that only certain groups qualify. A review of comparative drug prices helps understand why so much is paid for so little.

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Originally posted by Sprint_girl07:
Sorry to your question, yes I do have a 10yr GC

So you are pretty bulletproof as far as his threats are concerned. USCIS is not exactly short on complaints from disappointed spouses. I am sure they file them, to acton they would need something well out of the ordinary and substantive evidence to support it.

You either could naturalise, or will be able to soon. If you do that does end the Affadavit of Support.

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Originally posted by Theone:

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Originally posted by Got_Faith:

quote:

Originally posted by ntfd3:
he signed the 864. HE HAS to keep u financially even after the divorce - ITS LAW!!! You also have to go back to court every year to get it assessed again. U cant become a burden to the US tax payers.. NO they dont get it from him. You take him to court and get it !!!!!! I hope u kept copies of the paperwork

Do you know how it works if the USC who sponsored + signed the aff. of support (864), and alien divorce (alien claiming 'extreme cruelty') THEN the alien gets married again ? Would the NEW spouse have to then sponsor the alien ? It seems that's how it should work, but I'm uncertain.

Thanks
Got_Faith

There are 5 get out of jail cards if you are on the hook as a Sponsor, re-marriage is not one of them.

Thanks Theone... I kinda knew I'd hear that response. For some reason, I thought it might make a difference since the alien made a claim of 'extreme cruelty' which was not true. This person KNEW to use those charges so they'd be able to file as battered spouse...so to remain in the USA.

One might think that a new spouse would have to take over responsibility. Oh well !

One more thing... While looking at the USCIS page regarding Naturalization Requirements... not only does this alien fail the 'good moral character' test... the residency requirements weren't met either:

"The applicant has been married to and living in a valid marital union with the same U.S. citizen spouse for all three years" ...which didn't happen

From what we know, the last document received was a notice that the I-181 (creation of LPR) was approved. This too was more than three years ago...which makes me believe that the alien is, or should be out of status ! BUT, because there's a new spouse involved, that might change things.

Talk about complicated!

The business that you say you worked at for a while was obviously primarily run by your husband. Just out of curiosity, if he walked out of the business would it still function? I would guess not. If you walked out which it sounds like you did, it still functions? Why do you beleive you should be 'ENTITLED' to what someone else did. The *** story about him not 'letting' you do this or that is an old 'I'm a victim' and dodge responsibility trick. Why are you so worried and putting so much effort into seeing what you can get out of him instead of doing something for your self, by your self? Do you really believe you should have gotten a paycheck for helping him out? Thats precious. Maybe he should have charged you rent while living in his house. Charged you taxi fare when he took you and another mans son where ever you wanted to go. Charged you for food and everything else he provided while you were there. If that were the situation then I could see you doing this, but I'm sure that isn't the case at all. I kinda think the reason he took the protective messures he did was because something in the back of his mind told him your intentions were not so honorable. I guess he was right. I hope he gets to keep what's his! Sound like I'm pissed, YOUR right. I had an immigrant wife just like you. Helped in my business minimally and was having an affair on the side. When we divorced she wanted her 'half' which would have amounted to more than what her entire family of 10 had in total. In the end I got my revenge. She got something that ended up being worth nearly nothing. You see my dear when you try to screw people you end up getting what you deserve at some point. Funny how now that I make it point to mention prenupt agreements most women go running for cover. Shows their true colors. I did find one that is ok, although she has her own set of troubles, but at least I know she isn't a vulture. I almost forgot. Your son, he has a father? It was so nice of you to take his son so far away to keep him from being able to be a dad. I'm sure you did what a lot of women do, preach to him how terrible his dad was. It helped to justify dissapearing across the atlantic didn't it?

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Pls see these:

[URL=http://www.courts.state.ny.us/reporter/3dseries/2007/2007_00947.htm ]Moody vs Sorokina[/URL]

Stump vs Stump


Cheshire vs. Cheshire <--- Cheshire vs. Cheshire.

Pls note: Court has consistently found in favor of the immigrant.

YES (pls pardon my English becaus it is not my first language) - basicaly, your ex husband has a legal obligation to support you. Legaly, even though his agreemnt was with the goverment, you are a third-party beneficiary (many spell checkers needed for that word..!) and there is a specific part of the I-864 which allows you to sue him.

Pls feel free to pm me if you need more help - I'm in similar process, and my lawyer has been so helpful!

Klavier,
I read the case of stump v stump. Did it matter to you that Mr stump has a child he is taking care of, not from her. I guess Ms stump didn't care about that. She just wanted to get as much as she can. Doesn't matter that a child is going to suffer because of this. She got her GC and a bunch of loot, hooray. meanwhile a USC child may be starving. These are the kinds of actions that cause a lot of people to want to close the borders. No appreciation for what you do have already. Do you think for one second you would be 'awarded' these kinds of benefits back in Russia or Ukraine. I don't think so.
Sleep well.