Another scene...from the "legal spouse".....I know this is a "rant to clear" The so-called spouse takes the cake! The latest of remarks is: "i'm gonna run away and don't try
and find me". I said, that's fine. No one has
held you at all. Then, I said, is that "before
you remove the conditions or after"? There was no answer. I said, "we all figure you were gonna run after removing conditions".......so, I laughed at him. He said....."you have nothing, so you won't miss me"....I said you're right...
so move on... i have. I also said, you can run
where you want, dig a hole or whatever, but you
can't run from yourself or the guilt trip you
must be on. The guilt will always be there.
It takes a man to stand up to responsibility and
a coward to run. I mentioned, that if all
the truth were known to your friends, you would
not be "mr charm the leaves off the trees"......
he came with nothing, he will leave with nothing.
I have yet to understand why he feels as he
does, it's a matter of what's right....and
wrong..... anyway.
I'm done. I feel pity for him.

Write the following on a piece of paper and carry it with you. Look at it when you feel weak, afraid or useless.

"you are ___________" insert your name on the line.

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