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quote: was looking is my crystal ball and you are in the same situation. I see more there is no *** in your relationship,he does not want children,that is a big red flag.
Fredy not all couple who decide not to have kids doesn't love each other. Having kids is not a basis on how two people live their relationship. It's the love and respect that keeps two people together. Accepting each other who they are.
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quote: Fredy not all couple who decide not to have kids doesn't love each other. Having kids is not a basis on how two people live their relationship. It's the love and respect that keeps two people together. Accepting each other who they are.
Yup, I agree. We don't have any kids, and we love each other. Some couples can't have children for some reason, so does it mean they don't love each other? --------- And this is my 2000 post on the forum! Yey!
I am a proud heart-bleeding tree-hugging latte-sipping urban-dwelling elitist progressive liberal.
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You can be married for 50 years and have 20 children and it could still be a fraud ! These people stop at nothing !!!!
These people stop at Nothing !
Death to IMBRA AND VAWA !
God Bless America and no one else !!!
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My husband and I don't have children of our own, though given the fact that we had several miscarriages before two ectopics left us unable to, if anyone dared to use our childlessness to justify any suspicion of fraud or to claim we don't love each other enough, I'd probably go a little bit postal at them. Fredy, as a foreign bride, I also find your assertions rather insulting. Fat? Lazy? Diseased? *shakes head*. As for Michael, when I told my husband of your assertions towards marriage fraud (the whole forever and 20 kids thing), he couldn't talk for 10 minutes he was laughing so hard. I told him not to worry. Since I'm going straight to LPR he doesn't need to fret about VAWA and he certainly couldn't deport me. 
************************************** The whole of life is but a moment of time. It is our duty, therefore to use it, not to misuse it - Plutarch
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| Posts: 1051 | Location: Las Vegas | Registered: 07-29-2007 |    |
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well too bad.but just to let you know AIDS started in ethiopia,well,she should be so happy that she still alive ,I watch this movie years ago ,I think was"wrong turn" itis about these Ethipian men eating people.She is lucky ,he did not make her carnitas.The other problem is that most American with LOW SELF STEEM go to ather countries to get a partner.I"ve been in this country seven years ,I"ve seen it all.FIlipino women in their 20"s with an american man age 70.Over weight is another factor why people go to other countries .Soon they discover they have been used.Sad,sad, you can tell that Iam mean and rude but I just see things that people see but rather not to say anything .I say this again,If you want to get an illegal alien get a mexican they are easy to adapt ,is going to be cheaper ,in most cases you not even have to go to MExico ,you can get it in here.Go to a restaurant ,there are plenty working in the kitchens.The big sign Is children ,If they dont want to have children ,it is because they are planning on leaving after they get the GC.AROHA,iam not talking about you because unfortunatelly you cant have children, but I am talking about people who can but dont want to.I dont have nothing against Africans at all,just that some of them did not get their immunization shots,and others are addicted to eat humans which is really dangerous in our society.My baby Doctor"s was somewhere from there ,I was afraid she could eat my baby,the way he looked at her,and he had a big mouth,I changed doctors ,Iam relieved I did it.
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| Posts: 138 | Location: Home | Registered: 01-14-2008 |    |
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quote: .I"ve been in this country seven years ,I"ve seen it all.FIlipino women in their 20"s with an american man age 70.Over weight is another factor why people go to other countries .Soon they discover they have been used.Sad,sad, you can tell that Iam mean and rude but I just see things that people see but rather not to say anything .I say this again,If you want to get an illegal alien get a mexican they are easy to adapt ,is going to be cheaper ,in most cases you not even have to go to MExico ,you can get it in here.
Fredy I dunno if ya have a c-r-a-c-k in your head. May I remind you that most american men married to Filipino are dual citizen, meaning they have the same rights as their wife in the Philippines( I'm half french, half filipino born in Phil.)Im A USC married to an American and to tell you honestly my husband enjoys the country and the hospitality.And most Filipina women work and help their men on their bills, they don't sit around and make babies and claim child support ( that was your education I suppose).Im proud we have famous celebrities whose half Fil, Half American Phoebe Cates, Tia Carera, Lou Diamond Philips and many many more. Second, people in India are highly Educated, Men and Women. Third, not all mexican marries just to have a lots of babies, (like what you're promoting) Most are educated came here legally, some did good in the army and police service. Lastly , don't single out any race. Good ones always top the bad ones!!
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quote: ok whatever you say.lot of babies is good,I have a two year old and one more coming on June,Iam planning on having 5 .Thats true filipino women work hard,And I respect them,I have a lot of filipino friends ,but I seen a lot get married to old people to immigrate here,I"ve been in the Filipines.
and How can one explain it to DHE if he/she is marrying someone who's 20yrs or 30 years older
About people from India they are just ugly,educated yes but ugly.
Are you aware of the list of Miss Universe Winners? Did you someone from El Salvador. I know India was there.?
Ethiopians they have deseases that we dont want here.I think that people should know that ,about these canibals. Don't Medical Examination is a Requirement before an application approval? Which by the way includes HIV test, Tuberculosis etc.For someone like you who keep on mentioning GOD. Who are you to judge people? Who stays and don't? Do you really think God will throw away sick people?
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you know what you are right in some points.I"ve met some nice people from every country.about the immigration physical ,I almost forgot it I went through that,I lived in stanford and met some nice people from India,I just hate someone12 and that makes me say things about his people,I am wrong .I know there are some ugly people in El salvador,like in all the countries.grand parents were from spain ,so I dont look like a regular salvadorean but more like an european.I"ve never met anybody from Ethiopia ,just what I "ve heard ,they are canibals.Some times i say stuff that I think its funny but I shuold be more careful,sorry If i made you angry with my comments with that being said ,lets leave that behind.and lets go back to the issues,how are we going to help that woman to deport the Ethiopian,I would suggest hire a lawyer and go to USCIS and file a claim for marriage fraud.
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| Posts: 138 | Location: Home | Registered: 01-14-2008 |    |
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Fredy before you make statements like you have, I would suggest checking it out whether it is fact or not, or just what you have heard or seen in a movie. Ethiopians are not cannibals, and AIDS did not start there, in fact first cases were known in USA first, but at the end of the day, no one will really know where it all started as we didn't have the know as we do now. Cannibalism can be found all over the world really, even cases in Europe. There are some tribes in parts of Africa that have also done it and still do, but to say Africans or Ethiopians are cannibals..is ridiculous. When someone does not know about a certain country or the natives of that country, it is quite amazing what naive stories come out from around the world. Like Speed pointed out, you preach about God and what mankind should be like towards others, yet you have recently said racial, prejudice and even made remarks towards women. I think you should practice what you preach Fredy, sorry to sound harsh but I don't like to hear people putting down countries or certain nationals. You can never generalize a country and their people just by knowing some people you have met or having been to the country once or twice. There are good and bad, pretty and ugly people all over the world, but you know what, it is their heart that counts not what they look like. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- God Bless America - God Bless Immigrants - God Bless Poor Misguided Souls Too  Mr S.U.
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This guy asked a question, but all you have suceeded in doing is abuse, berate each other and expose your ignorance.
Now to answer the question: 1. THe guy is under a probationary period, so it is easy to have the GC reversed. However, she needs to prove that his intentions were fraudulent. SHe needs an immigration lawyer. Like someone else said, I will advise her to avoid all confrontations especially if no one else is present. Threats (no matter what the nature) are a definate no no.
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quote: This guy asked a question, but all you have suceeded in doing is abuse, berate each other and expose your ignorance.
The question was already answered by the board READ!!The guy is not the OP.
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The guy, if Wmn, is the OP. He just isn't the immigrant or petitioner in question quote: Originally posted by speed_025: quote: This guy asked a question, but all you have suceeded in doing is abuse, berate each other and expose your ignorance.
The question was already answered by the board READ!!The guy is not the OP.
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quote: Originally posted by Farrah's Thoughts: Hi hon, it's so sweet your concern for your sister... Sounds to me like fraud...the Ethiopians only marry their own kind. The fact that a woman answered the line then lied about it, the fact that he wanted no children are #1. I am sure there are things your sister is NOT telling you like how they probably don't go out together, or have sexual relations.  I may be in the same boat down the line...read my story if u like but my advice is:How old is your sister?? What is her financial situation? religious background?? When you give a little more insight I will give you the voice of experience...my luv and my hugs go out to your sister.
Hi Farrah, How's it going?  I was wondering whatever happened between you and your husband - keep us updated for any good (even not good) news. Perhaps you can share with the OP your experiences. Good luck! 
Do all the good you can, in all the ways you can, as long as ever you can.
--John Wesley
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| Posts: 1258 | Location: Georgia | Registered: 12-22-2007 |    |
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