so you were following her in every single step she was taking to get somebody for the green card and now you want to report? forget about it and move over and dont do this again

Its best you didn't marry her anyway. Sooner or later this would have backfired in your face. She is already married which makes any current ceremony void. The purpose was what? To bring her son and 'husband' over. Which means you would be dumped at some point.

Now, this is where it really gets ugly. There is a thing called VAWA. Read up on it. This is what she had in store. Once the I-130 was approved she would have filed a vawa complaint against you. This is probably the fastest path to a green card. In the process though. You as the USC are destroyed. She gets the GC, imports her family and lives happily ever after at your expense. While you have your reputation permanently destroyed.

Even though its not you anymore. You have a duty as an American to protect your country. make the call to ICE and report this. What goes around comes around. If you remain silent then don't expect anything different from other people when its you as the victim.

NO NO NO! She did buy me a car, and pay for my debt, along with a bunch of food and taking me out to places.
The only thing she said she would pay me for was my school.
"I'll pay for your school since your marrying me."
That was the only agreement we had, and either way I did DENY it.
"No, no you don't have to."

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Originally posted by davdah:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by mike_2007:
no i think he will end up in jail too davdah, he is an adult and he was taking money from her so this is a crime , and also i dont think shes that stupid anyway,i think she have evidence againts him that he was getting money etc..... i just dont get it,how old you were when you first started dating this woman?

He was following through with the plan..she didn't! He signed marriage papers even if not all were signed to make it legal.

I'm sorry Davdah, he was willing to commit fraud, even if he loved her. He knew what she wanted and was willing to do that.

Amazing how because he is the USC the usual ones are not bashing...forget he conspired or took money whether a gift or not to marry her. Jeez

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Originally posted by mike_2007:
this is not trure and this is prove it more and more that you are fraud, if you really love this woman you wont care about what that lawyer said to you and you want let her just go and be with somebody else, give me a break man

You know what mike, just leave. I don't love this woman any more. How could I? She was using me to get a green card, and when the lawyer said that, she left me in a month.

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Originally posted by Mr. F:
NO NO NO! She did buy me a car, and pay for my debt, along with a bunch of food and taking me out to places.
The only thing she said she would pay me for was my school.
"I'll pay for your school since your marrying me."
That was the only agreement we had, and either way I did DENY it.
"No, no you don't have to."

So if say she was caught and questioned..don't you think she will confess to you and your deal?
She will know it has come from you, so be warned. They can check your records and see that she paid off your debts, she might even have evidence that could put you in trouble.

Count yourself lucky she married someone else.

i am leaving buddy ,have a good one

Should have listened to my first Post! . LOL.

trying to remember who had the shovel last???? Hmmmmm???

First of all thank you sprint, dav and USC. You perhaps saved me from facing conspiracy to commit fraud charges. There is more than enough proof for them to prosecute me for that. A letter, pictures of our marriage and those signed marriage documents.
So basically there is nothing I can do and just forget about it?...

tO REPORT AN ILLEGAL ALIEN OR CRIMINAL ALIEN RESIDENT contact the Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) division of the Department of Homeland Security by calling (866) DHS-2ICE to "report suspicious activity" (866) 347-2423.

You can also make a report with the DHS/ICE Investigations division in a city near you through the telephone numbers listed on the ICE web site "” for Special Agent-in-Charge (SAC) Offices, and their subordinate field offices called Resident Agent-in-Charge (RAC) and Resident Agent Offices (RAOs). You can even write them a letter if you want to make a written record.

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Originally posted by Mr. F:
First of all thank you sprint, dav and USC. You perhaps saved me from facing conspiracy to commit fraud charges. There is more than enough proof for them to prosecute me for that. A letter, pictures of our marriage and those signed marriage documents.
So basically there is nothing I can do and just forget about it?...

GOOD JOB!!!! have a great Day and DONT EVER DO IT AGAIN!!!!

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Even though its not you anymore. You have a duty as an American to protect your country. make the call to ICE and report this. What goes around comes around. If you remain silent then don't expect anything different from other people when its you as the victim.

I wouldn't want anything to backfire on him if he reports her to ICE. His part in all of this was not totally on the up and up (if I understand correctly). He's still young and doesn't need the extra headaches going though trying to have her prosecuted. I say better to move on. Revenge is not always sweet.

Thanks USC. EVERYONE says just forget about it. I think I may just have to.

You could still make an anonymous call. Since your not married to her and not connected to her anymore they wouldn't be interested in you. That call could at a minimum save the current village idiot who did marry her some undeserved jail time.

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Originally posted by Mr. F:
Thanks USC. EVERYONE says just forget about it. I think I may just have to.

You're welcome. It's totally up to you. I just think it would be best in the long run to try and put this behind you. You are young and have alot of living to do without focusing on negative stuff. Good luck to you!

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Originally posted by davdah:
You could still make an anonymous call. Since your not married to her and not connected to her anymore they wouldn't be interested in you. That call could at a minimum save the current village idiot who did marry her some undeserved jail time.

And what would I say exactly.
"They married for the green card, lololol."
There would be no proof.
The only way to at least show proof is with me, and if I do I'll get in trouble.
What should I say?

it will open back fire on him what are you guys talking about? they are going to ask him how did he knew all this and if thye find out that they got married bla bla even thu they did not sighn all the documents but there is still record of it in the system , this is a mess and they will find out about all this and they will go after him . this is uscis not judge judy's court

This is absurd! Trying to accuse somebody without proof, trying to bend the law to seek revenge is a crime! Making false statements is also a crime. Now, take a deep breath and do what's right, and that may or may not be what you want.

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Originally posted by Mr. F:

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Originally posted by davdah:
You could still make an anonymous call. Since your not married to her and not connected to her anymore they wouldn't be interested in you. That call could at a minimum save the current village idiot who did marry her some undeserved jail time.

And what would I say exactly.
"They married for the green card, lololol."
There would be no proof.
The only way to at least show proof is with me, and if I do I'll get in trouble.
What should I say?

That would do it. You would probably need to mention she is already married in japan, korea, or where ever she is really from. No proof needed. An entry will be made in her record to check it out. If you have the name of her other husband that will help. Have any phone numbers of her family back home? Pass those along.

The fact is, what you did was wrong. But that doesn't mitigate the greater wrong being committed at present. Nor does it place you in a position of ineligibility to do what is right.

Thanks. Assuming she did file for divorce when she told me, is it really possible to get a foreign divorce from Korea that quickly?