i think what happened that you were taking money to help her get her green card and you were ok with it and at the end when she found somebody else and left .and now you want revenge . i dont understand what was sent to vegas and did you actually marry her or what? but i can tell you this,if you tell this story to uscis i am positive both of you will end up in jail

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what was sent to vegas and did you actually marry her or what

I was told the marriage papers were sent to Vegas so the waiting time would decrease to a day, instead of 6 months or how ever long it takes in California. We did the marriage ceremony, but we didn't sign all of the papers making it void.

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Then she asked me to marry her, in order to help her support her family overseas. (later on it changed to have her son come over to America to continue school, and the husband along with him) She said she would pay me for this, and bought me many things. A car, paid for my debt, etc. etc. etc.

Umm what is it that you wrote...that you don't think is fraud? She told you why she wanted to marry you, and you accepted..in exchange for money.

no this is about revenge only sprint and he is lying, he is hurt because hes not getting paid or because she stopped giving him gifts ? you know i support immigrants even if they are illegals but not someone like him, it wasn't a 2 or 3 weeks relation, he was taking money from her for almost 2 years and he knew exactly what was going on and i bet you if she was still giving him money that we wont see him here . bye

what what what? what is the 6 months? i got married in california within 3 days and i was done with all the paper work, what are you talking about?

Our relationship was only about 10 months, and the final 3 was when she told me about all this. I did love her, but now I realize she was manipulating me the whole time. I'm not mad that I'm not getting any "gifts" as you put it, just mad because I was used for such a thing.

Either way, if I want to report I should go to the ICE, thanks davdah.
If I took my case to them, what do you think would happen?

and why do you have to hide and twist things up ? who cares if she see it or not? if you were straight and telling the truth and you were not guilty ,you will never hide and you will say it loud in the street but this is prove to me that you are her partner and you just dont want to get caught

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Originally posted by mike_2007:
what what what? what is the 6 months? i got married in california within 3 days and i was done with all the paper work, what are you talking about?

After what I thought was 3 days of being married, she told me that we weren't because all the papers weren't signed.
I was told you have to wait about 6 months to get married in California and have it legalized, therefore, the lawyer took the papers to Vegas, a place where you can get married in a day. Correct me if I'm wrong. That's what she told me, and pretty much what I saw.

i still dont believe a ward form you because you were taking money from her and you keep twisting the dates and everything in every single post but let me say something to you even thu you dont deserve this but if you call ICE or uscis you will be screwed big time and you will end up in jail. i am sure that you have sighned some documents that could be use againts you and you dont even know this, the best thing to do is to s.uck it up and forget about it

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Originally posted by Mr. F:
Our relationship was only about 10 months, and the final 3 was when she told me about all this. I did love her, but now I realize she was manipulating me the whole time. I'm not mad that I'm not getting any "gifts" as you put it, just mad because I was used for such a thing.

Either way, if I want to report I should go to the ICE, thanks davdah.
If I took my case to them, what do you think would happen?

The timeframes you've given (and some other things) are confusing. Did she actually get a green card out of the brief marriage to you?

holly c.rap, so you did not even know if you married or not or if you sighned the papers or not ? but how? they make sure that you sighn the papers and they even show you where to sighn????? i dont get it

According to her we were never married. So she didn't receive a green card, she did that with the man she was cheating on me with.

I never said I didn't know what I signed. I signed some of those marriage papers, but she said I didn't sign all of them...

Come to think of it....no, that day we were signing the papers we were suppose to come back to finish it. At least that's what I was told. It's my fault for being so easily manipulated. Is there nothing I can do because **** it up? Could I take a plea by saving myself in order to give up information?

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Originally posted by mike_2007:
no i think he will end up in jail too davdah, he is an adult and he was taking money from her so this is a crime , and also i dont think shes that stupid anyway,i think she have evidence againts him that he was getting money etc..... i just dont get it,how old you were when you first started dating this woman?

Actually no. He took money from her to do it. But he never followed through with the plan. Legally, the money from her is a gift. Since no criminal act took place while he was a party he is innocent.

I should also add she married him because he was older. The lawyer said I was too young, and the marriage wouldn't look real.

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Originally posted by Mr. F:
According to her we were never married. So she didn't receive a green card, she did that with the man she was cheating on me with.

I never said I didn't know what I signed. I signed some of those marriage papers, but she said I didn't sign all of them...

Come to think of it....no, that day we were signing the papers we were suppose to come back to finish it. At least that's what I was told. It's my fault for being so easily manipulated. Is there nothing I can do because **** it up? Could I take a plea by saving myself in order to give up information?

I'm sure you are very angry, Mr. F. But, I would chalk this up as one of life's lessons and try to move on. I don't think anything good will come out of you trying to get revenge. As others have mentioned, you could find yourself in a bit of trouble too if they suspect you were a participant in a marriage scam.

Better luck in the future to you!!!

Do you know what a conspiracy is? I recommend you actually lean about it.

Using the law to pursue revenge is also a criminal act, and such conduct is indictable under more than just one statute.

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Originally posted by Mr. F:
According to her we were never married. So she didn't receive a green card, she did that with the man she was cheating on me with.

I never said I didn't know what I signed. I signed some of those marriage papers, but she said I didn't sign all of them...

Come to think of it....no, that day we were signing the papers we were suppose to come back to finish it. At least that's what I was told. It's my fault for being so easily manipulated. Is there nothing I can do because **** it up? Could I take a plea by saving myself in order to give up information?

Did you Lose anything except your Dignity, self respect, and your heart???? just have a Couple Drinks and find Someone Else. You are 19??? Why On Earth Would anyone enter The System at 19. when those things you lost will return in a couple months. guaranteed!!!

even if you give them information they will still put you in jaul, at first they will promise to help bla bla and once you give them all the info they will make you sighn some ducuments and baaaaam ,then you will be charge with fraud and this is the last thing you want . if you did not send the i-130 yet so you have no record with uscis ,they dont know you or your name or whta she did with you,so go ahead and report her and her new boyfriend for fraud ,but dont tell thema bout your self and dont go there in person, i will give you the number to call DHS and report her and try to ostay out of this

Actually no. He took money from her to do it. But he never followed through with the plan. Legally, the money from her is a gift. Since no criminal act took place while he was a party he is innocent.

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Actually no. He took money from her to do it. But he never followed through with the plan. Legally, the money from her is a gift. Since no criminal act took place while he was a party he is innocent.

this is in the civil law davdah ,immigration see it way different and you know this . i seen people were accused for fraud and they sent pounds of evidence and they been together for 2 and 3 years living as a couple, but this guy said it straight that he was taking money to help her. but one thing i dont understand mr.f if your not even legally married toi this woman and never filed anything for then why are you concern?

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I should also add she married him because he was older. The lawyer said I was too young, and the marriage wouldn't look real

this is not trure and this is prove it more and more that you are fraud, if you really love this woman you wont care about what that lawyer said to you and you want let her just go and be with somebody else, give me a break man