Originally posted by MajMikeW: Doesn't the fact that I will be separated from my child, and that he/she will have little/no healthcare (compared to US, plus my insurance doesn't cover Indonesia) work in my favor with the waiver? (I have Medicare A/B and TRICARE for Life).
I'm not trying to be dense here, it just seems that to ignore a pregnancy and the resulting needs would be asinine.
Pregnancy doesn't excuse your fiance's illegal presence. When she goes out of the US to wait for the visa, naturally so does the baby. Once the baby is already outside the US, the immigration has no further interest. USCIS does not care about the fact that your fiance has no access to health insurance.
Your separation with the baby does not add to your hardship because you always have an access to see your baby, and you even have an option to move to Indonesia. USCIS already knows many illegals intentionally get pregnant to try to use it as hardship, and they do not care for that.
Usually, hardship based on babies comes into play only when babies are several years old and have been living with you for a long time. In this case, USCIS could determine that babies are too old to be able to ajdust to a life in a 3rd world contry. This obviously does not apply to infants.
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MajMike, the waivers are approved as a favour to USC when it is proved that USC would suffer an extreme hardship if the alien is not let back to the US. USCIS is not interested if and how an alien would suffer (lack of medical etc).
The child would be a USC and could reside in the US.
Just wondering how an Indonesian whent through a PoE without being inspected, the only thing that comes to mind is claiming to be a USC, which would raise a whole another issue.
How the loss of my unborn child would not be a cause of great harm to me I do not know, especially to a place where my child cannot receive decent healthcare (including prenatal). My shrink would be able to confirm that my mental health is such that such a seperation could lead to thoughts of suicide on my part(I'm better now, but I just came out of a major depression and she and the thoughts of my new baby had a big part in my recovery).
aneri
I understand their lack of concern for the alien, but her health and the health of my child (who will be a US citizen) are inseperable while in utero. To treat the child we must treat the mother.
Theone
I wasn't there so I only have what I've been told. We're going to talk details this week so maybe I'll have a better grasp on exactly how she crossed. The basic story is that she was sleeping when they car she was in crossed, apparently without being checked at all. Her Indonesian passport has a Canadian Visa (6 mth visitor) about 4 years old, but nothing showing entry to the US. I will see it tomorrow.
All
I know how this may look to some, but I had to pursue this woman and our relationship progressed slowly. I am retired military, so I know how some folks will screw their way into a green card. I just don't see that in this woman, and our relationship is not like those I saw.
The bottom line is that I really do love her, we just want to do what is right and still be able to be together.
Originally posted by MajMikeW: How the loss of my unborn child would not be a cause of great harm to me I do not know, especially to a place where my child cannot receive decent healthcare (including prenatal). My shrink would be able to confirm that my mental health is such that such a seperation could lead to thoughts of suicide on my part(I'm better now, but I just came out of a major depression and she and the thoughts of my new baby had a big part in my recovery).
I understand their lack of concern for the alien, but her health and the health of my child (who will be a US citizen) are inseperable while in utero. To treat the child we must treat the mother.
Theone
The immigration law is neither based on common sense nor sympathy for people. Otherwise, it would be ripe for discrimination. If it was, how do we choose who gets our sympathy and who doesn't.
Waiver process is a special previlege, not a given right. You can argue but at the end of the day, immigration officer will decide based on laws.
Originally posted by Theone: Just wondering how an Indonesian whent through a PoE without being inspected, the only thing that comes to mind is claiming to be a USC, which would raise a whole another issue.
The whole story is bizarre and makes no sense at all. His fiance, as a citizen of Indonesia without a proper visa, would certainly have been denied the entry to US at the border.
4 years ago was when she came in, and that is after 9/11 terrorist attack. As a result, we all know the border security became very tight. Is it possible for a foriegner (from a muslim country no less) fall asleep in the back of a car and not get inspected? I might have just believed her story before 9/11, but it has to be impossible since then. To top it all, she never went back to Canada and instead, started working in US. Why did she get a job if it was meant to be a short visit? How was it that she was able to get a job, while being illegal? Under the table deal?
I think there has to be only one explanation to all this. When something is too incredle to be true, the simplest exlanation is usually the real truth - MajMikeW is being lied to by his fiance about her status. He needs to get the real truth from his fiance.
Someone12 and ANYONE that allies himself with him:
THIS PROVES you are the biggest phoniest pieces of $hit on this message board - you talk all of this "obey our laws patriotic" nonsense and it appears that we have a wounded military officer here seeking advice on how to keep the woman that he obviously loves with him in America - and all you can write is your TYPICAL REPETITIOUS TIRED "send them back to their country" nonsense.
I know that you're too stupid to understand this, but SHAME ON YOU.
You've OFFICIALLY proven how low you really are - and I've confirmed that I would definitely prefer 100 illegal Mexicans for every one American like you.
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To ALL of the Someone12 defenders that site "patriotism" as the reason that they defend him, TAKE NOTE of EXACTLY HOW he has treated a wounded veteran. He is SCUM.
ProudUSC, Paddy and SunDevilUSA, WHERE are you now? I see you have avoided this thread like the plague.
Originally posted by timmy_d11: Someone12 and ANYONE that allies himself with him:
THIS PROVES you are the biggest phoniest pieces of $hit on this message board - you talk all of this "obey our laws patriotic" nonsense and it appears that we have a wounded military officer here seeking advice on how to keep the woman that he obviously loves with him in America - and all you can write is your TYPICAL REPETITIOUS TIRED "send them back to their country" nonsense.
I know that you're too stupid to understand this, but SHAME ON YOU.
You've OFFICIALLY proven how low you really are - and I've confirmed that I would definitely prefer 100 illegal Mexicans for every one American like you.
Timmy, I am not taking anyone site here , but I think that Someone12 is just very consistant with his opinion. The same rule for everybody, even a veteran! Timmy another thing can you explain to me why you put so much weight on that, that this particular veteran was wounded? So does that mean that every other veteran who came out of combat is worth less than the ones who carry a purple heart? BTW it is very noble of you to defend us illegal immigrants, BUT I really think MajMike has the educational level to take care of himself in this matter so please stop disturbing/destroying every discussion here with your destructive replies. Thank you
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Great post, Vegado. He's doing more harm here than good. He may be an activist for illegal immigrants, but he's showing his support in a very negative and vulgar fashion.
Originally posted by Vegado: Timmy, I am not taking anyone site here , but I think that Someone12 is just very consistant with his opinion. The same rule for everybody, even a veteran! Timmy another thing can you explain to me why you put so much weight on that, that this particular veteran was wounded? So does that mean that every other veteran who came out of combat is worth less than the ones who carry a purple heart? BTW it is very noble of you to defend us illegal immigrants, BUT I really think MajMike has the educational level to take care of himself in this matter so please stop disturbing/destroying every discussion here with your destructive replies. Thank you
Timmy is a just little brat who is only intersted in seeking attention. Let's quote one of the things that he said today.
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Timmy_D11 wrote: ProudUSC, Paddy and SunDevilUSA, WHERE are you now? I see you have avoided this thread like the plague.
If his intention was truly for promoting "pro-illegal immigration discussion" on this broad (as he claimed repeatedly), then he should be happy that the likes of SundevilUSA and ProudUSC are not posting. Instead, he is egging them on. He is baiting them to post.
He twice bvmped this thread up to the top (in span of an hour) for no other reason than his rivals see the last rubbish he wrote. He WANTS his rivals to respond to him so that ha can be in the center of attention. He is nothing but a attention wh0re. Pretty childish I must say.
I just read and re-read the Immigration & Nationality Act, the US Constitution and several other publications regarding US law....none, repeat for the learning impaired (yes tinydiktimmy, this means you)..none mentioned anything about some disabled veteran getting extra special privileges for his (or her) border-jumping, visa cheating, scamming girlfriend or wife....not one word....and sorry major eff-up, but your little sweetie pie was probably HIDING under the back seat, rather than sleeping through an inspection.....after 2 years and one day, she will be out the door like a cloud of flies on $hit......sorry tinydiktimmy, but NO ONE is above the law....and just because poor old Major F Up fell in love with some border jumping illegal does not mean that she gets a green card without penalty just because he has a purple heart (or two, or three)....there are NO EXCEPTIONS......period....now then, timmy.....please, REFUTE that last statement, based on our LAWS.....moron.
Originally posted by Vegado: Timmy, I am not taking anyone site here , but I think that Someone12 is just very consistant with his opinion. The same rule for everybody, even a veteran! Timmy another thing can you explain to me why you put so much weight on that, that this particular veteran was wounded? So does that mean that every other veteran who came out of combat is worth less than the ones who carry a purple heart? BTW it is very noble of you to defend us illegal immigrants, BUT I really think MajMike has the educational level to take care of himself in this matter so please stop disturbing/destroying every discussion here with your destructive replies. Thank you
Allow me to spell out what is so smack-you-in-the-face-obvious:
Someone12 loves to consider himself patriotic when it comes to defending our nation's law's but when given the chance to be truly patriotic and being kind to a veteran, showing some respect and appreciation, and give some advice on how the guy can keep the woman that he loves here despite the fact that she is here illegally, he ignores the guy's service to our country and treats him like any other chump out there and basically tells the guy "F your illegal wife - send her back"
The guy is scum and apparently you are too for defending his heinous character.
Originally posted by Someone12: I just read and re-read the Immigration & Nationality Act, the US Constitution and several other publications regarding US law....none, repeat for the learning impaired (yes tinydiktimmy, this means you)..none mentioned anything about some disabled veteran getting extra special privileges for his (or her) border-jumping, visa cheating, scamming girlfriend or wife....not one word....and sorry major eff-up, but your little sweetie pie was probably HIDING under the back seat, rather than sleeping through an inspection.....after 2 years and one day, she will be out the door like a cloud of flies on $hit......sorry tinydiktimmy, but NO ONE is above the law....and just because poor old Major F Up fell in love with some border jumping illegal does not mean that she gets a green card without penalty just because he has a purple heart (or two, or three)....there are NO EXCEPTIONS......period....now then, timmy.....please, REFUTE that last statement, based on our LAWS.....moron.
You've proven to be such a hopeless moronic imbecile I don't even know why I bother.
so tinydiktimmy....prove me WRONG!...go ahead...find that exception to our laws......I DEFY you find any section of immigration law that states that just because some green-card seeking t wat latches on to some disabled vet, he or she is automatically entitled to the gc....come one....show the world what you are made of (160 pounds of $hit)
Well what do you know, 2 losers back-to-back again.
What have you 2 idiots done in the past 2 weeks besides this and your Walmart job?
Let's see, in the past 2 weeks I DJ'd at 2 events, went to the NYC Ballet and went backpacking and snowshoeing for 3 days in the Adirondack High Peaks.
What have you 2 losers done?
Dont lie - you haven't done di@k except whine, ***** and moan about illegals here.
Why don't you 2 losers get a life - go fu@k the fat pigs you call wives or something.
[/QUOTE]Allow me to spell out what is so smack-you-in-the-face-obvious:
Someone12 loves to consider himself patriotic when it comes to defending our nation's law's but when given the chance to be truly patriotic and being kind to a veteran, showing some respect and appreciation, and give some advice on how the guy can keep the woman that he loves here despite the fact that she is here illegally, he ignores the guy's service to our country and treats him like any other chump out there and basically tells the guy "F your illegal wife - send her back"
The guy is scum and apparently you are too for defending his heinous character.[/QUOTE]
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DARE you calling me scum, Timmy. Who do you think you are? I do not share Someone12's opinion, BUT obviously he is right in one thing: You are not quite right. Who made you the Robin- Hood- of - illegals? Everybody with and average education can defend him/ her self against Someone12, if they feel the need to- WE DON'T NEED YOU! Or is this your deep down problem, you compulsivly try to "help" us because deep inside you are the one who needs help? And I am sorry Timmy, Patriotism means you do/ want what is in the best interesst for your country, not what is in the interest of a service member. So, Timmy, you say that because MajMike is a veteran he can do whatever his needs or wishes are, because his counrty owes him? That would of course also mean that my husband ( read my post) who served in 4 wars and has a chest full of medals is in the right, too, since he is the veteran and therefore the INS needs to do how he wishes? That is hippocratic because I Am the illegal immigrant and you need to defend me, Robin- hood1
I don't find it necessary to report what I've done for the past two weeks to you, you moron. Your accomplishments don't sound significant to me, BTW. I have been spending alot of time trying to learn more about illegal immigration and have posted several of my findings in this forum. You, on the other hand, have posted nothing of any value since you started your vigilance. And, since you don't have a clue, I am not a guy.
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