Hi Jennifer

If you love this guy and want to get married. Just have him withdraw the papers from the first sham marriage. Then divorce her.(This gives relief from the fraud of getting greencard thru sham marriage) Fortunately Since no interview has taken place yet, this will not be a problem for you two to get married and file paperwork. Your mother is already the sponser. so that should not be a problem.

Its a roll of the dice. He may be sincere for you , or he may not be. If you love him and are willing to take the chance, then go 4it.

If he leaves you after a few years, do not be surprised. But ask yourself if it really matters if that happens, if you are content for the happiness now. BTW All muslim men do not leave the american wife. Many live happily ever after.


Blacksword: Quote]2. Muslim men are unlikely to marry a woman older than them by a year, much less twice their age, as you described this case.

3. Even if he got the green card, an immediate divorce may come back to haunt him, they'll look into it at naturalization proceedings, trust me.[quote]



Muslims do not have problem with older women. The prophet Mohammed married an older women. They do not have these "american hang ups" of age.

Trust you on naturazliation? why ? do you have a story? naturalization will not be based on marriage. it would not even be an issue.

Gee.. who can you trust these days


Nireemhandi:

Whats happening in your case these days

What a retard

quote:

Originally posted by Houston:
Sappyconifer, the OP said that she found out from a family member who is a co-sponsor. This means that the person is sponsoring the application KNOWING and REGARDLESS OF THE FACT that the couple intents to commit fraud. Sponsorship is "affirmative action" given the fact that it's vital to sustain the application.
-THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE-

Houston,

How do you jump to that conlusion, given the scant facts that Jennifer has provided? Unless I am reading this differently, although Jennifer wrote

quote:

His wife has 3 children by another man, is on welfare, and he says that hes never slept with her or nothing of that nature. He has already been married for one year, but hasnt had an interview for his gc. One of my family members is his sponsor, and thats how I found out.

it doesn't necessarily suggest that her family member, the joint sponsor, knew the marriage was for immigration benefit alone at all. Of course, I can only analyse the words provided, but in the quote above it could mean the family member that is sponsoring this man is aware that he has been married to a woman with whom he hasn't been intimate for 1 year and hasn't had an interview for his GC.

quote:

Originally posted by 4now:
Hi Jennifer

If you love this guy and want to get married. Just have him withdraw the papers from the first sham marriage. Then divorce her.(This gives relief from the fraud of getting greencard thru sham marriage) Fortunately Since no interview has taken place yet, this will not be a problem for you two to get married and file paperwork. Your mother is already the sponser. so that should not be a problem.

Hmmm. I'm not going to say anything on the recommendation made above, except...
He couldn't adjust through another marriage if if he came on a K type visa. Ks are restricted from adjusting through anyone other than the initial petitioner.

Sappy, however, thats correct that if he came on a K visa. then he is restricted, But I doubt that is the case, as Egypt is very strict about large age differences for the K visa approval. Religion wise its ok, but it seems when an old gal is trying to bring back/over a young one, that there is trouble.

thanks so much 4now !! ok he was recently incarcerated for overstaying, first here was here on a tourist visa, and then switched to a student visa before he was married. He has an upcoming court date, so my question is, if he divorces her and marries me, is their a possibility that he could be deported? all the expensive paperwork that he and his wife filled was recently denied, I think its the adjustment of status paperwork, so can he be deported if he divorces her? wouldnt that make him out of status?

quote:

Originally posted by 4now:
Sappy, however, thats correct that if he came on a K visa. then he is restricted, But I doubt that is the case, as Egypt is very strict about large age differences for the K visa approval. Religion wise its ok, but it seems when an old gal is trying to bring back/over a young one, that there is trouble.

True, consular processing might have uncovered little basis for a genuine relationship. I wonder how he got here in the first place, then?

sorry I have to go

but if that is the case, and you really want to marry him. then time is of the essence.

divorce her, marry you.. file new paperwork

case will be adjudicated by the immigration judge while he is in removal proceeding.

have to go.

will look at thread tommorow

quote:

Originally posted by jennifer1184:
thanks so much 4now !! ok he was recently incarcerated for overstaying, first here was here on a tourist visa, and then switched to a student visa before he was married. He has an upcoming court date, so my question is, if he divorces her and marries me, is their a possibility that he could be deported? all the expensive paperwork that he and his wife filled was recently denied, I think its the adjustment of status paperwork, so can he be deported if he divorces her? wouldnt that make him out of status?

Yikes! More facts./ Yes, marriage while in removal proceedings is definitely a big red flag!

whats removal proceedings? he said that the court date is for the judge to talk to both of them (him and his wife) to make sure the marriage is real? he doesnt make much sense to me about what he says with this immigration stuff.

this cameljockey is a visa cheat and a liar....he lied to our embassy when getting the tourist visa, he lied to our border officials when he said he was a tourist, he lied when he asked for a status change, he lied to the first village i d i o t he married and now he is lying to the OP....send King Tut back to Egypt.

quote:

Originally posted by Someone12:
this cameljockey is a visa cheat and a liar....he lied to our embassy when getting the tourist visa, he lied to our border officials when he said he was a tourist, he lied when he asked for a status change, he lied to the first village i d i o t he married and now he is lying to the OP....send King Tut back to Egypt.

LMFAO !! cameljockey, village idiot hahah

Thanks for asking. NOthing is happening. As he
says, he does what he wants. That's okey. I have
yet to figure out what kind of man he is. He lies
to himself, girlfriend, me and so on. I would find
it hard to live with myself. From me, there is
nothing....he gets "0". That's good. If a person can't hold on or value what they have, then they
don't deserve it.

Jennifer1184. It'll be a HUGE mistake if you marry the man without further considerations for the situation.

I am looking at the date line that you provided. You dated him for 6 months. He applied for a green card a year ago after a fake marriage. That means he already had 6 months of the processing time before you started dating him. It is quite possible that his paper was already denied when you met him, and it is very probable that you are his backup plan.

It is very common for Egyptian men to try to marry western women for the sole purpose of getting European or American passports. In Egypt, European or American women would be constantly approached by men. They would be showered with flatteries and sometimes gifts. They like to say phrases such as "you are special" and "Especially for you" etc.

Apparently, this tactics work as some women fall for the trick and end up marrying them, only to find out later the real intent of their marriages, when their behaviors change.

When a man constantly sweettalks and pampers you, it's very easy to lose the sight of what's really going on. You must find out his real intent before you even consider a possiblility of marriage. It's better to be safe than sorry later. His first fake marriage is already a proof that he's ready to marry ANYBODY for the sake of a green card.

Wo


How could his paperwork been denied if there was no interview???? Something wrong with the facts here.

Soounds as though whatever status he had has been terminated. and this issue is being reviewed in court before IJ.

He has very very big problem, and he is not giving you all the facts, or you do not understand them. If this has already been denied for marriage fraud and had interview, this is not good. please give us more accurate info.



Nirremmhandi

Glad you are good. did he get approved for 751 to remove conditions yet?

Jennifer...

Your boyfriend is using you as well. How can you know that he's not using you? My advice, flee to another part of the country, so that you avoid issue whic will come up later in life. If he can marry someone while professing his love for you, then what else will he do in the name of his love for you?

Flee... he is here for a greencard, and by being part of his scam, you are aiding someone for evading immigraiton laws.

To 4now, nothing has happened.

ok, Im going to see the lawyer tomorrow. I have a list of things that I want to ask him, but I am afraid that he will call the police or something, but I heard that everything I say to him will be confidential. Is this true? Should I be worried?

also, I dont plan on breaking any laws, immigration or otherwise, I just want to consult the lawyer so that I wont be doing anything unlawful.

Hi Jennifer,
I strongly agree with Someone12, send him back. Why are you so worried about him? You should be worried about yourself. He LIE and will always LIE..... take care of yourself b4 anyone else....