They are only winning if you let it consume you and seek revenge.
Moving on, trying to take what you have learned from this and making something positive out of it, is what really what you should be doing.
You can't change the past, but you can change the future.
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I have to disagree with that. The justice system in general is a form of getting even. Only advice I would recommend is to keep it legal. No baseball bates or Ghotti style paybacks. A person needs justice to re-instill their sense of self worth.
The moment you capitulate to lawlessness you've lost your civility.
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